My mother (very long, sorry, but I need help and kind words)

[Dior]

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Oh Dior. I haven't posted on your thread before, but have been following. I really feel for you with all the crap that's going on at the moment.

Didn't want you to think no-one was listening. x

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I havn't posted on your thread either, but know of your problems briefly.

I'm sure people don't think 'oh no, no her again'. It's your thread, you have been through alot & still are, if you can't rant on here, where can you do it?

Hope you're feeling a little better today.

(((hugs)))

ok never put something on here before feels funny, but i read through all this and it made me feel teary. I really feel for you Dior esp. as i can relate to loads of what you said. My mum has always told me that its normal for the middle child to be ignored when i get emotional about my childhood. I just know if ever any child of mine felt unloved i would do everything to prove them wrong. i have one dc and like you never want him to feel alone ever. Just remember how much your little one needs you too, you'll be a great loving mum. oh and dont feel like your going on too much, Its been 36 years! and now finally an acknowledgement - that is sooo much pain to try and undo.

i feel exactly the same and the story is just about identical to mine, you have my sympathy. Also even though my sister is a complete waste of space the continued favouritism even through my successes has been like a knife twisting in my heart, we have to focus on our children and not making the same mistakes our mothers made, and see as little of our Mother as possible for our own sanity

dior, i don't think 'oh no, not her again'. i've been lurking on your thread and while i have no wise words to offer i can only give you a {{{{{{{{{{hug}}}}}}}}}}}}}

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