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The dating thread 65

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Queenofthedrivensnow · 03/11/2013 22:09

Grin
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dontcallmehon · 15/11/2013 22:24

I'm so sorry saturn :(

powpow80 · 15/11/2013 22:28

Lady that sounds like an amazing night and day.

Saturn that's such a pity. Fecking men.

Don't he'll get onto you all right. It sounds like both of ye like eaxh other and enjoy your time together. Hard to be waiting on the texts though.

Last nights date rang me earlier. Wasn't in the mood for talking so just text him to say I couldn't take a call.

Have a date tomo afternoon with another guy. Coffee and a stroll.

How is it going hormonal?

superdooperpenguin · 15/11/2013 22:56

Saturn - sending you a big virtual hug! What a pathetic man, how on earth would you know that unless he told you? Drink wine and eat choc tonight and be kind to yourself xx

gaga - sounds like a perfect mini break!

dont - I have every confidence you'll hear back soon, but get what you mean about wanting him to do some chasing.

Pow - good luck for tomorrow's date!

Well I've just had a charming offer on POF - "we could have epic sex". If only I wasn't so busy washing my hair.

Hormonalhell · 15/11/2013 23:07

Hi everyone!

Oh no Saturn, what a fecking c**k! Why would u know, was it written on his forehead!! Confused

Ladygaga your date sounds lovely, wish felt like that......sadly I do not Hmm

He came to mine left his car n we caught the bus to the Xmas market, it was like being with a good friend but I felt absolutely nothing for him and as the night wore on his jokes started to irritate me. I'd not been feeling very well and I used it as my get out clause because we got back to mine at 9.00 and Watched tv for awhile. He then started kissing me and it just made me feel even more nauseous!

I told him I needed to go to bed alone and he was very gentlemanly and left. Very very wrong but bless him he said as he was leaving 'your special, we can take it slow' ConfusedConfusedConfused

dontcallmehon · 15/11/2013 23:52

He texted back, but I'm fed up. Just want to know if he likes me, otherwise I'll get back on POF.

Queenofthedrivensnow · 16/11/2013 00:00

Well I never. Gap yah just instigated 'the talk 'Grin

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Stupidhead · 16/11/2013 00:15

Holy cow what an evening you lot are having!

Saturn, don't fret. I met a guy in rl and had to digest 'he's just not that into me' as I thought I was crazy..he was married. Blocked and moved on :)

I went out with a friend group and met some lovely women. One guy was a total twat though so I told him I'd break his teeth if he touched me again...I'll never be a lady :(

Great night though!

Queenofthedrivensnow · 16/11/2013 07:37

I have just left gap yah's house Grin

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Hormonalhell · 16/11/2013 07:43

Woooooah Queen things have moved in pretty quick Grin

Was it good, please tell!!

Hormonalhell · 16/11/2013 07:44

On not in Grin

Hormonalhell · 16/11/2013 09:54

Dontcallme ask him how he feels, what u got to lose?

Putitonthelist · 16/11/2013 11:20

Wow ladies I must have been away from the thread longer than I thought!

OneDay I don't mind the fact that the guy has dated my friend at all, it's what she said about him. VERY full on for a few weeks and then radio silence. She also mentioned that he spoke about his ex a lot too. Have made the decision not to go on another date.

Saturn So sorry. Did he just drop it into the conversation?

Hormonal Will you bother to see him again? Maybe just as a friend?

Queenofthedrivensnow · 16/11/2013 11:55

It was actually amazing. We did not dtd but lots of intense snogging and stuff. It was v nice Grin definite knickers on fire too. I think dtd is on the cards but no pressure from him as he said he wants to tread carefully. I am a bit caution to the wind now!

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Hormonalhell · 16/11/2013 15:15

Awwww that's fab Queen so jealous!

Putiton I don't know I'd like to be friends but he wants more. I did that with another guy n we still friends two years later. Don't want friends - want a sexy lover Hmm

Putitonthelist · 16/11/2013 15:28

Completely understand Hormonal Smile me too - got enough friends already thanks!!

Lahti · 16/11/2013 15:52

May I ask if any of you knock a few years off your age on your profiles? Asking as I have a few guys messaging who look quite a bit older than they claim. I'm very amused that my profile was checked by 16 men last night between 2 and 3am.

Hormonalhell · 16/11/2013 16:01

Well I don't but think guys do as they generally want younger women

FolkGirl · 16/11/2013 16:03

I don't. My profile is completely honest.

I agree that there are a number of men who seem to lie about their age, and a few others who are quite, um, creative with the facts generally.

But I don't see the point in lying.

Lahti · 16/11/2013 16:10

Hmm I have been honest too, but I have noticed some creativity on a few profiles. Also may I ask hiw long do you chat before agreeing on a date. 1 guy has asked with 5 messages!

SweetSeraphim · 16/11/2013 16:26

I would never lie about anything on my OD profile. Ultimately, the intention is to meet and possibly have a relationship. Your lies will find you out - and as someone who has been duped over a few things over the years, it's a crushing disappointment if someone isn't as they described!

Lahti · 16/11/2013 16:29

sweet I'm glad it isn't just me who thinks that.

SweetSeraphim · 16/11/2013 16:43

Well there's no need is there Lahti? Just be honest. You get what you give, and all that Smile

dontcallmehon · 16/11/2013 18:07

Yay!! Date on Tuesday with geeky. He apologized for being rubbish - his house is flooded and he's having a nightmare, but of course he would like to.see me again! Had a heartstopping hour after I texted him asking for a date and he didn't reply and I was nearly in tears!

brokenhearted55a · 16/11/2013 19:29

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Queenofthedrivensnow · 16/11/2013 19:35

I didn't lie about anything on my profile but I am a bit evasive about my job. I'm pretty wise to blokes lying though!

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