Same room swinging

[snares]

That is having sex with your own partner (and not swapping) with another couple in the same room.
Me and DH are curious and find it erotic. Looked at a UK swingers site and saw adverts full of people with their bits out and faces on display. We're interested but are worried about how unsubtle some of these people appear to be.
Has anyone had any experience of mild swinging like this or could it be a ghastly mistake and find yourself in the company of some over eager couple ?

The swinging thing reminds me of Louis Theroux when he visited a swinger's house and she was busy covering the furniture with plastic sheeting and fussing about vol au vonts.

That's pretty much why I lean more towards a club than a private party ubik, hopefully slightly less of that!

Swinging Heaven has a lot of club reviews and ratings. My knowledge of the scene is three or four years out of date now: there was a place in Bristol called The Office that I went to once and the people were very nice and friendly but it might have changed.

I saw that one, looks like it's in an office block or something? That's really helpful thank you, will take more of a look on swinging heaven

By all means look at some swinging websites and decide which one you want to join.
Warning, there will be unsuitable people on there and it may take you some time to get in touch with someone who will help you. There are lots of pervy single (apparantly) men on these sites too. Thsi is just something you learn to ignore.

By all means explore your sexuality, once you get to grips with your fantasies it can be very liberating and can bring you much closer together.

A word of warning, you must both be comfortable with the situation, any doubts on any side, call it off.

Real swingers will respect your boundaries so if you dont want anyone joining in they wont.

The more expensive clubs are very particular with who they allow in

Fetlife is a bit hardcore but is full of all kinds of "fetish" events take a look see what you can find under exhibitionism and voyeurism.

Fetlife is predominantly for people into BDSM, so if you're not into BDSM I would suggest sticking to Swinging Heaven. particularly as Fetlife is crawling with all the bucketheads who used to infest IC and bore newcomers to death

Oh dear god.

Something weird is going on - today I had my first ever dodgy personal message. Perhaps you are all right about the stuff in the media?

Yeah, just reported that one.

i just shuddered...& reported under the reason of
HELP CREEPY INAPPROPRIATE PERVERT (on the loose)

There's an awful lot of unwanted attention being directed here at the moment.

Half of it from sad pervs and the rest from nasty twats loving winding up those 'sad frustrated old bints'.

I know some of you think people like me are being Po faced prudes but it's for good reason. It because I hate the fact that MN and it's posters have been turned into a laughing stock. It's not right.

Ohhh that's right bu me, last time we had an offer like that I had to travel to Hull!!!

I'm with you on that, Randall.

Hmmmm, for the love of god.

Fuck me, it's HullDad's dad!

We got it the first time you weird, disrespectful fuck.

Hopefully he'll poof soon.

am verrrrryyy tempted to break talk guidelines for the first time ever……