Same room swinging

[snares]

That is having sex with your own partner (and not swapping) with another couple in the same room.
Me and DH are curious and find it erotic. Looked at a UK swingers site and saw adverts full of people with their bits out and faces on display. We're interested but are worried about how unsubtle some of these people appear to be.
Has anyone had any experience of mild swinging like this or could it be a ghastly mistake and find yourself in the company of some over eager couple ?

That's exhibitionism, not swinging.

Have no advice though, sorry...

I'm doing it as we speak

Wanted to avoid going to a swingers club per se which would probably be full of full-on type swingers anyway. We were thinking more of visiting a similar minded couple who can accommodate. Perhaps watch a porn movie together etc.
It's the overall no holds barred culture that's putting us off

Visit another couple who can accomodate so in other words you don't want it your house?

You will probably be able to find another couple who are into what you are but you are unlikely to find them on a swinging website

Are you being paid by Jenny Murray?

I honestly clicked on this thinking- kids swings inside?! my kids would love this!

naive over here

Naice multi-tasking Randall

I knew someone once who was a male "Escort"
He would be paid to watch couples sometimes, and join in occasionally.
Apparently make swingers used to pay him as a "treat" for their partners b day/anniversary etc.
Not my cup of tea really.

If you're not swapping, you're not swinging.

What sites have you looked at? You'd be best of getting to know couples on fetish sites on a casual basis then approaching the subject later. The trust should always be there first.

Bloody hell Badders, all I got my DP was a bracelet....

Tut tut
:)

You sorted out your zero sex life issues over the last few years then?

What are you planning to do with all the children?

OP - sign up to fetlife. There are groups specifically for this type of thing and 'munches' to meet up with like minded people in a none sexual way to form friendships.

I am a swinger lol and while I go to social parties I don't go to sex parties where its all organized and almost expected that you will have sex. PLus I prefer to choose who I want to have sex with, rather than the organizers choice of men on the night...The social events are like a works night out, dress up and everyone having a good time,and a dj.. if you like someone well your all there with the same idea in mind...However there are many nights I don't swing, no talent, not in the mood whatever my reason that's also perfectly acceptable ....

You can also advertise as a new cpl looking for a cpl to soft swap with on these sites, this usually suits new cpls who are shy n nervous to begin with

HTH :)

I thought of dogging too, maybe you could get some binoculars and peep through the neighbours windows or put some kleenex on your outside window ledge of you prefer to be the star of the show.

I take it your DH has stopped taking the Bromide then.

SwingingLite.

As long as you have some brain bleach handy, google chaturbation.

The world is going to hell in a hand basket.

OP - here have a

This is the third thread I've reported

with your face and bits in a photo. .. On the Internet. ..
where everyone in the entire world can see, and identify you. ...
Smart
btw-come here via the Daily Fail by any chance?

Why does everyone think the OP is a troll? Lots of people swing, it's not that unusual.

Me and my man have thought about it a lot too, like you we wouldn't want to get involved with other people, maybe in the future but not for a while. Quite like the idea of being watched though. We don't know anyone involved with the scene so thought a swingers club would be a good place to start, surely there's no pressure to join in with other couples if you weren't comfortable?

It's dogging with canapés.

And I've reported too.