Bloody H looking at porn on pc

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Am so mad; he knows I don't approve. I know he uses it, he has done for years but he always makes sure the history is deleted.

Just found some that he's looked at today and it was she-male stuff FFS amongst 'normal' porn. Usually it's 'asian babes'.
Wtf is that all about?

He's very techy and there's nothing in the folders on the pc (that I can see). Nothing on the history or temp internet files either, yet this stuff is on the recently changed files of both his & MY profile (which is how I found it when looking for one of my docs).

I feel like printing the stuff and posting it to everyone who thinks he's a nice chap. Fatheaded Twat that he his.

There's no doubt about it, your husband sounds like a dick but just wondering, if you have teenage kids are you sure it wasn't one if them accessing it?

I used to not have an issue with porn. But now I see how toxic it can be for a relationship. Within porn you enter a world were women are submissive and are able and willing to do things most women can feel uncomfortable about. And the vision of what both men and women look like are severely distorted. It is not real. But nowadays allot of women seem to "accept" that all men watch it and they have to put up with it.

They shouldn't. If it makes you feel uncomfortable then it is toxic for your relationship and self esteem. No one should feel like they should do things they don't feel comfortable doing and should be able to have an open and frank discussion about what they like and were the boundaries are. And no women should feel inferior for not looking like a barble doll.

If men are doing this behind your backs then that will corrode the relationship which should be all about openness and compassion

Like it's a new issue (snore). Go to the British Museum and look at some greek pots. Big dicks. Girls being pissed on, girls loving girls with boys doing one of them from behind - anal, threesomes, gangbangs and other classical education. There's nothing new under the sun.

Boys like pictures.
Girls like pretending. And lying to their friends.
What's new ?

Pots at the British Museum? House!

boys will be boys, eh ?

< tinkly giggle >

< goes to make a sandwich for my man >

Careful MiniMonty,

You can't be letting historical facts get in the way of a good old MN anti(enteryourcausehere) rant.

The op seems to be using porn as the big problem, when quite clearly there are a raft of problems in this relationship, but hey, blame porn, it's the MN way.

Good luck sorting things out op.

Yes b ecause if there are historical examples of porn, that makes it okay?

Because cronullansw, of all the things wrong in my relationship (and I've admitted there are A LOT of problems), the porn bugs me the most. Absolutely, it does.

chirpchirp - date and time the pages were accessed was when he was at home and the rest of us were out.

miniMonty - just because men have bulied women into sex for thousands of years, thhat doesn't make it right!!

Exactly! There are historical examples of murder, but we don't accept this as a reason to excuse murder

And Classical Athens was hardly a paradise for women....

I do Ruby1080, I really do.

Comment of the day there from MiniMonty.
I'm sure OP feels much better about porn now that she knows there are pots from an old violent male-dominated culture where men litterally piss on women.

I especially liked the random comment about "Girls like pretending. And lying to their friends."

MiniMonty is male - enough said!

I bet if men had been treated in such a way over thousands of years, they'd have something to say about it, wouldn't they!

And don't forget that women like lying to the police and juries as well ... enjoy a bit of rough and then go calling it rape. Girls will be girls

Do you know what? I feel like taking up smoking (never have, never wanted to & never will if I'm realistic) H absolutely detests smoking - bit like I detest porn really

But, if it's ok in his eyes to use something I loathe, then surely I can do the same?

Off to the shop to get me a packet of fags to leave lying around...

Would him having s different pc help then? I'm not bothered by my husband looking at porn if he wants especially as I am 40 weeks pregnant and his poor balls are like grapefruit! But finding the she male stuff would make me question what was going on...
I feel fir you though OP, your really angry but he is a grown man you don't own him you can't tell him yo use his imagination that's likr trying to police his mind.... I fear the more you complain and get angry the more of s deal it becomes and then he will be thinking about it mote and want to use it more as childish as that might sound it is human nature.

But OP he likes Porn!!!! You don't like smoking that makes no sense at all! I think rounding actually like thI'd man you call husband and your not referringbtoi good about yourself either. What can you do yo calm down? Then think about what the rboot of the problem is

Sorry above post supposed to say I don't think you actually like thus man and your not feeling too good about yourself either

I think you're probably right sweetiepie - I'm so mad I just want to piss him off.

I've no intention of smoking, but the ranting is making me feel better.

tell me again why you are doing this to yourself? why are you living such an angry life?

Just re-read your post sweetie... thinking about it, I feel fine about myself I certainly don't feel inadequate compared to these plastic, fake parodies of women on a screen.

I'm considered a 'hottie' by friends and there's nothing wrong with my self esteem.

I wonder how my H would feel about a DD being in a porn film?

his poor balls are like grapefruit!
Comment of the day, the runner-up.

Dear OP...like everyone says, you seem to really dislike your husband. Do you really want to continue to live together with someone you seem to dislike so much? Are there some good things, is there something you like about the relationship?