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The Brave Babes Battle Bus - Driving Through The Autumn Scenes, Searching For Our Sober Dreams.

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Mouseface · 27/09/2013 12:49

Hello, I'm Mouse :) Welcome to the Bus, (aka Gerald Grin ).

I'm one of the Brave Babes on board this fabulous Bus of travellers, all in search of their sobriety in one form or another.

We have those who drink in moderation, those who have a set pattern of days on and off the booze, and we have posters who have been sober for minutes, hours, days, weeks, months or years.

There are two lines that the Bus has painted down the side, one on each -

The Vulnerable Need Our Support, Not Our Judgement and Alcohol Fosters Inertia

So, if you think you're drinking too much or you're worried about another person, then come find a seat.

We get through our days chatting about all sorts of things, life is, after all, full of plenty of things to fuel our desire to drink, and we're all very different people Grin

However, our common goal is sobriety. :)


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Fairenuff · 29/09/2013 13:31

Yes, ignore him. You just need to take some time for yourself right now. Children change, they change their minds, they grow and learn from what they see going on around them.

Right now, you have to let her go just for a little while. You need to concentrate on keeping yourself safe and well. The circumstances that you are in will change. Get ready for that day, by turning your back on alcohol, use this time now to beat that urge.

We are all here for you, keep talking x

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dementedma · 29/09/2013 13:33

Can't stay but checking in to lend my support. You can do this babe.

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Ladame · 29/09/2013 13:37

How old are your other children? Boys and Girls? You must have been one tough cookie to get out from under him with your children and set up a new life somewhere else.

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Isindesidecar · 29/09/2013 13:43

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Ladame · 29/09/2013 13:47

Great!! Let's do another 30!! We've got a huge storm brewing here. If I go awol, it's because I've lost connection, but I think it'll be a little while yet. imdoingthis are you there ??

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Ladame · 29/09/2013 13:49

Indie cross-posted. Yep another hour here too. I'm knitting a blanket for the dog (oh the excitement). I too am trying to resist, am bored and missing dd.

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Imdoingthis · 29/09/2013 13:51

Yes I'm here

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Imdoingthis · 29/09/2013 13:52

Just
Still reading x

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Ladame · 29/09/2013 13:54

Tell me three things about yourself that are unusual, like .. can you touch your nose with your tongue?

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Imdoingthis · 29/09/2013 13:56

I had to let her go to get away from him
I lost them both at the price of our freedom

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Ladame · 29/09/2013 13:57

Indie sending you some virtual Camembert to go with your bread Grin

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Ladame · 29/09/2013 13:59

She will come back, teenage girls need their Mum. Keep that in your head and stay strong, stay talking to us.

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myfriendbill · 29/09/2013 14:11

mouse. Thought of you yesterday and said a little prayer.

doingthis. You can do it, every minute, even every second counts and you will get stronger.

X

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Imdoingthis · 29/09/2013 14:12

Thanks for all being here

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myfriendbill · 29/09/2013 14:26

We are always here and nothing will shock us, we've all been there, done that and bought the tshirt!

isinde. I am doing some work! Not the way I like my Sundays but it's got to be done.

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Fairenuff · 29/09/2013 14:36

Got to go out for a bit but I will do an hour Smile

See ya later x

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Imdoingthis · 29/09/2013 15:21

I hate my life ;(

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dementedma · 29/09/2013 15:22

Popping back in. Am in and out like a dog's dick today but shouting my support.

indie what did you two row about? Same old same old?

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InCiderMind · 29/09/2013 16:15

Hi all, I really embarrassed myself yesterday and today Ive gone AF! Another Day 1 - last week I toppled badly on day two and then binged, it was horrible. I am vowing to do better. Its my ds birthday in two weeks, I would love, love, love to be sober until then. Ive asked my dp to support me, he has hidden all bottles - really difficult as i live in a pub so all i have to do is go downstairs, i dont even need money, its great awful for my addiction. I am tired of staff giving each other knowing looks when i help myself to a double G and T at 3pm. I AM GOING TO DO THIS! sorry to shout but I feel so awful after yesterday that I feel positive iyswim.

Tomorrow when i wobble i will post on here to buy me time whilst i ride out the craving. hope noone minds.

Goodluck to all in my position and well done for all who are remaining sober, cant wait to feel proud of myself.

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Imdoingthis · 29/09/2013 16:20

Kids playing up I don't want to be here I wish they'd leave me alone want to just die I carnt do this no more

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Imdoingthis · 29/09/2013 16:33

I tried to go out pet shop and park but I feel shit and kids know it there playing up now I don't know what to do

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