Female orgasm during sex??

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Hi all,
I'm in a long term relationship, have a fantastic sex life, but have never had an orgasm through penetrative sex!!! Any tips?? Is it even possible??

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Over sharers, cum one and all !!

I've never experienced it during am I hard done by?

i can only cum this way by shagging hanging upside down over a vat of jelly, while my partner recites 'In the Ning Nang Nong' by Spike Miligan

that sort of stuff you mean, AF?

I regularly do on top. But it's a once in a blue moon otherwise....

It's a relationship forum... Sex is an important part of a relationship. Don't see the problem in asking this question. But hey... Thanks for making me feel like shit!

No laws against touching yourself during sex.

Have you tried encouraging your partner to make pirate noises?

Very possible - look into positions that help stimulate the inner sensory zones.
But it would help if you practiced before hand so you know what the sensation is like and don't suppress it.
Try G spot orgasms DIY so you then work with your partner to stimulate these with the positions.

NB also leads to ejaculation hence why you naturally try to suppress it.

But like most things involving sex, you've kinda got to know what you enjoy before you can ask someone else to do them.

Clitoral orgasms from normal sex are not as common - this would involve more grinding whilst in the act. which may as well be his finger truth be told.

Good luck

By ejaculation - I meant female ejaculation - also known as squirting, gushing etc etc

this is highly rated

Knew it wouldn't be long until someone mentioned squirting/gushing. 11 comments in is a new record I think.

sorry OP

it's just there are some unusual types around at the moment

Female ejaculation through g spot stimulation; ok.... Do many women actually achieve this?? I've always thought its a porn star thing!! Or maybe everyone does this and I've been missing out.... Ummmm. The ideas not instantly appealing, worth some thought though.

I learned to do this recently....took a bit of practice ...worth it for the new experience and for DP's reaction.

F.E. that is...

I have no desire to learn how to ejaculate. But bloody hell, a life without orgasms... get on & find the button.

I found having a baby changed everything for me. It made me have loads more orgasms. Would that be an option? Don't know how it happened mind...

I do apologise if mentioning female ejaculation has caused some offence.

I can assure you it is not a porn thing and every woman is capable of doing it (at least from my experience) and no it's not a fountain as some people think.

But it does take some letting go as it feels unnatural for some.

I have never enjoyed porn and nor have i learnt anything from some porn video. I am a geek who practised it (as geeks would do) with my first partner many moons ago (i am 37).

No intention to offend. I apologise and bow out gracefully.

Before i do go: I said - it is the same area that leads to it. not learn how to ejaculate.

Blimey - do people want honest open information or is anything that is outside the norm too dirty for MN.

No apology needed 'ofmiceandmen'
I'm not offended at all.
It's interesting because I think female ejaculation is a bit if a taboo issue for many. It's certainly not too 'dirty' to be discussed on here IMO.
I'm surprised that all women can do this; kinda thought it was unusual.

Ornageandenons; I've had a baby.... Unfortunately no increase in orgasms! But lucky you!

Twinklestein ; I have no problem having an orgasm, god no. It's having orgasm during sex I can't seem to manage.