Pom well done, I really hate doing that sort of thing. But you know you've made the right move when you feel a weight lift as you send that text. I think the full-on stuff straight away is really weird. You don't know each other at all. Not sure how men think doing that kind of thing is good, unless they have a script in their head about "What Women Like" 
Alpha's down south recovering from some medical tests, hoping he will be okay to drive up again at weekend.
Juliette everything crossed for your ds tomorrow. Very glad things are going well with Dutchie.
Gin just keep plugging away, and if you don't get any luck then try a different site. It's weird that sites that work for some can be a total dead loss for others. I had no joy whatsoever with OkC, for example, but I know other people have found it to be really good. What's GSM like in your area?
Lorna this is getting very, very complicated! I'm not sure I would be seeing two at once if I'm at the dtd stage, but then again if you have made it clear you're not after a serious l-t relationship that's something different. So long as you're honest, and they know what the situation is, then it's up to them to decide if they're okay with it.
Beans you will be here all day -week month-- if you're trying to read all the posts! Just jump in and ask, it's fine.