I think maybe its an age thing with the photos, too?
My age
I'm looking for guys who've probably led the kind of lives where they weren't actually in loads of "party/going out/climbing Kilimanjaro" snaps. Ex was very personable in person, tall, fit, etc, well travelled, "done" a lot, but for his profile had 3 slightly bad/out of focus ones of his face, one of which was at a family wedding. He's had the same unflattering Facebook pic probably for the last five years.
We're in the "digital camera/Iphone" age now , so I suppose if you're dating in that "young 20's" market it's more "the norm" to have loads of shots of yourself . Whereas the same thing for a mid thirties upwards guy I'd think "attention whore or party animal or trying to hard to be cool".
(been chatting with a few guys online with AMAZING shots of themselves, and they are as dull as fuck
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