Waves is winning.....Here comes the Acrobat!

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Links to previous threads:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/a1670597-So-DH-said

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/1745551-DH-said-DH-left-waves-is-still-being-sick-but-into-the-third-timester

Will this become the live birth thread? Will Lodger 1 leave? Will waves be smiling throughout this thread?

Doula is on call, bags are packed, acrobat was a teeny 14 weeks foetus when I started posting - he is about to become DC3, I'll stop being sick and a whole new chapter will begin.

Yep, what Ezio said. With knobs on.

Waves - if you EVER needed more proof that you're better off without this bottom-feeder, this is it. How DARE he try and make this all about him continuously. He is NOTHING. He is worse than pondscum (that at least has a use in life).
IGNORE IGNORE IGNORE.

Am going to PM you so the bastard can't see.

Agreed Thumb, i find him pitiful and laughable aswell, blaming everyone else for his obvious shortcomings, as a husband, father and all around human being, he has no love, soul, substance, hes a pitiful empty shell of a man, who when hes old and lonely because his sons have worked out how toxic he is, hes gonna be feeling pathetic because he had a nice life, with a wonderful woman and DC's, and he threw it all away, simply because he is pathetic, should be pitied by us, waves will be just fine, he will have nothing and only himself to blame, because he will have run out of people to blame it all on.

Re. the hoping - I would say that it is a bit like banging your head repeatedly against a brick wall in the hope that it will eventually stop hurting. It won't. Nothing will change the fact that the wall is made of brick and you are made of soft human - brick will always hurt you if you continue to hit it, until you pass out (and you'll still have a headache when you wake up) or it finally kills you.

So walk away from the brick wall - you can walk around it, away from it, ignore it - brick walls have no sensation themselves, they don't give a shit what you do (apart from probably having a laugh at you trying to knock yourself out against them). They don't need communicating with either.

Remember who is important in your life - you, your DC, Acrobat, your friends. That's IT. Wankers whose sole purpose in life seems to be to upset you and devalue you have no place in your life any more.

Twunt, fuck off and leave the labouring woman alone for Christ's sake.
^ This

Waves I've been lurking for all your threads and never felt I could add anything of any help to your threads so haven't posted until now. There was a recent case involving a divorcing spouse snooping on their partner online, now admittedly that included checking emails and Facebook. But if twunt is reading this he needs to be mindful that it is an invasion of privacy and as such he should be mindful.

Can I also just say your so incredibly strong, acrobat is truly blessed to be born into this warm loving family xxx

Came on line straight away this morning to see how you and acrobat are doing ?I didn't want to see this. You brought down by that pathetic excuse for s human being! TWUNT FUCK OFF YOU BASTARD AND LEAVE THE WOMAN IN PEACE!! FFS she's in labour.

waves you can do this, you need to delete his number from you phone and not read any messages from him. He has no reason to contact you at present except to upset you and believe me this is calculated ?he knows you're vulnerable and he'd getting a thrill from upsetting you (sick twisted twunt that he is )

I hope you where able to get into s calmer place and that you acrobat and the dcs have a quiet day

How are you doing this morning?
You seem goid at the hypnobirthing stuff - could you try doing some imagery of yourself m

Of yourself moving away from him or putting up s transparent barrier to protect you from him, something like that?

Dear Twunt, if you want some sympathy for you, then instead of lurking here like a coward go find your own site.

Is there a TwuntsNet?

He is a bully and a pathetic excue for a man!
If he can't be supportive at this time then he should just fuck off and leave you alone.
Please please please do not enter into any form of conversation with this weasle, he will never ever change and this crap is just to control you further.
For the sake of your acrobat and your dc you need to nip this in the bud now as he will destroy what should be one of the happiest days of your little families life, and he removed himself from it so deserves no part in it now xxx

Twunt stop bullying a pregnant woman. You fucked off with a whore and researched late abortions.

You are in no way the wronged party here. Leave Waves and her family be!

Waves: Delete his number and enjoy your Twunt-Free birth with your DC!

Also waves - if you don't want to say on here when you're in established labour we'll understand. In fact, perhaps it might be better if not? You could PM one of us and we could cascade it out to the posters we definitely know, IYSWIM.

And yes to the coward comment. Stalking Waves online after everything he's done? the pathetic presents?

Loser of the highest order. DH thinks Twunt feels guilty because he's ruined his life. I say someone as emotionally damaged as him isn't capable of guilt, only self pity!

Minnie: YY to that too Waves, PM one of us and we'll use a code name

Good mornong waves the summer birthday boy will be able to have a lovely celebration each year and you can do something arty and play something for him and if the date coincides with a certain anniversary, well, then it's meant to be. Glad your douula is on standby and no bothersome lodger to spoil the atmosphere at home. Keep your mind on the prize, the pregnancy race is almost won.

Also delurking to say this complete twat is one of the biggest losers I have ever read about on here. And bullying a woman in labour has to be one of the most despicable things I have ever heard.

Twunt - you are a complete and utter twat. You fucked off to shag your ex girlfriend after researching late abortions, encouraged your children to be abusive to your very sick wife, forced her to take in lodgers to pay the bills on the house she gave up everything to buy with you (at a time when having strangers around is really stressful), and then continued to verbally abuse her - while she was carrying your child, enduring severe vomiting and having to go into hospital repeatedly.

You clearly couldn't give a shit about anything other than your own pathetic "needs" and you are a wanker of the highest order.

LEAVE HER ALONE!!!

morning lovely waves, I hope you found some peace last night.

You CAN do this, you WILL do this. You've done it for the past 9 months.

When you are in EL please PM one of us like others have said.

And yy to the hypno state, use that for yourself for now.

Remember, calm mum, calm baby, calm birth.

oh and TWUNT, fuck you! Honestly, just do one. You are indeed surplus to requirements, you do nothing except TAKE.

You are very very lucky that I and other MNers on here dont live where waves does, that is for sure. No way would you be doing this if she had the rl support network that she has online.

Fuck of you Twunt you are scum

Good morning Waves we are all
still here by your side. You can do this there is no place for negative thoughts/people as you bring your acrobat into the world. Put this to one side and concentrate on your happiness and I second getting a new number

Morning Waves.
Hope you managed some sleep last night, glad the clothes have turned up.

& think of your tree

"In the morning get a new sim and don't give him the number."

Definitely this if you can. Just cut him off completely for the last few days/weeks so you can get some peace and focus on the birth.

I write this as someone who sees now that they should have got rid of exH while pregnant. I let him hang around and he made the first years of my daughter's life all about him and his problems.

You owe Twunt nothing and maintaining any level of contact now will only bring harm. Freeze him out, at least temporarily, and let yourself focus on yourself and your baby.

Waves so sorry to hear about twunt being... Well the twunt that he is.

But you will get through this, you've been coping amazingly so far, you are such a strong woman, I have no doubts when the time comes you will find that calm space in your head and your body to welcome Acrobat into your family.

Hugs

I suggest no more mention of the fucking prick by anyone. I am sure he is loving us all getting so irate and is probably getting off on it. He is a nonentity and needs to be treated as such.

Waves, you have hundreds of women supporting you and behind you and willing you on. PLEASE if any of you are close to Waves make yourself known.

Get yourself to a phone shop and get them to block the pathetic wanker (last comment on it.)

Right, I have put my angry and disappointed feelings into a box and buried it away in the garden. I can deal with those at a later stage. Now, just to focus on my family and getting centred and to a place of peace again.

Off to the supermarket because it's the double dividend day at the co-op, make sure I have enough to get through the rest of the week at least (well, enough to get the DCs through anyway)

Only other task is to get some printer paper as I have a gig next week and have been asked to play part of a Corelli concerto, and have been emailed a pdf of my part, so am going to play through that (and breathe, and breathe, all a bit ouchy this morning)

I am a strong woman, I can do anything. I have been accused of emasculating partners in the past. My crime? Not actually "needing" them, whatever that means. Little miss independent and all that. I have got through the most hideous of pregnancies by myself, and am going to carry on with more than surviving. Because actually I have more than survived.

Thank you EVERYONE. Acrobat is very lucky to have so many people thinking of him, and about to become his online aunties

Off to the shops for me then.

Do you think unborn babies can succumb to online emotional peer pressure?

Acrobat....Come out come out wherever Well I know where but still you are...<

Enjoy the shops Waves! How did the DC like their new school things?

Oh and congratulations on the gig!! How exciting!