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Waves is winning.....Here comes the Acrobat!

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wavesandsmiles · 13/07/2013 06:31

Links to previous threads:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/a1670597-So-DH-said

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/1745551-DH-said-DH-left-waves-is-still-being-sick-but-into-the-third-timester

Will this become the live birth thread? Will Lodger 1 leave? Will waves be smiling throughout this thread?

Doula is on call, bags are packed, acrobat was a teeny 14 weeks foetus when I started posting - he is about to become DC3, I'll stop being sick and a whole new chapter will begin.

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JaxTellerIsAllMine · 25/07/2013 07:19

Morning waves. Hope you managed to rest. BrewBrewThanksThanksEnvyEnvy

Did your doula come back?

MissStrawberry · 25/07/2013 07:36

Oops, hardly noticed DH going to work as I was checking up on you WavesBlushGrin.

It has been quite a while since you posted so I hope all is well and Baby Acrobat is having lovely snuggles with his amazing mummy.

Mixxy · 25/07/2013 07:52

Morning waves! Any sign of darling acrobat?

wavesandsmiles · 25/07/2013 07:58

I was so determined to attempt sleep last night that I put my phone away. Managed 1.5 hours maybe? Still no acrobat to cuddle, just increasingly bad pain so am going to have to go back to hospital as things feel totally unbearable. I wish I could hop out of my body even for half an hour.

I've been snuggling acrobats blankets, since yesterday morning actually.

I really want the end of this journey to be today. I'm exhausted and hurt. Now the worst headache ever since around midnight and feels like my chest and throat are being squeezed too.

It is a lovely day, fresh after rain and sunny now.

I hope they contemplate inducing me now, I don't want to be stuck in this stage, I don't have the energy and can't manage the everywhere pain.

On a positive the midwife yesterday commented on how lovely and delicate my ankles are still.... I think the word is cankles (?) for a lot of women in pregnancy but mine are just like normal.

I am so glad of all this love and care and support winging its way to me. I promise I will let you all know what is going on.

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MinnieBar · 25/07/2013 08:08

I couldn't get back to sleep at 4 this morning as the rain was so heavy, so of course I checked on here for news Grin

Waves, as desperate as we all are for Acrobat to arrive (not as desperate as you, obviously!) it's really time to put yourself first now. We'll still be here.

I've got an image now of you in hospital:
Midwife: Is there anyone we can call for you?
Waves: No, but could you update my MN thread please?

captainmummy · 25/07/2013 08:10

Waves it certainly has been a long journey. I hope the end is in sight now - i can't believe you cuold be put through any more.

Good luck today - i keep checking your thread for t he good news!

MissStrawberry · 25/07/2013 08:10

Good luck! Hope today is the day!

Mixxy · 25/07/2013 08:14

The end (or rather the beginning) is nigh! I will spend all morning sending soothing, birthing thoughts your way.

wavesandsmiles · 25/07/2013 08:20

My DS, he is 9, is so wonderful. I just went up to check he was getting dressed and he said "you're the best mummy in the world. And you don't need to cry so much because it hurts. You are getting a big reward." So of course now tears are streaming because he is so lovely.

Off to dip myself in a warm bath before making plans to get myself back to hospital.

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nemno · 25/07/2013 08:31

What a lovely boy, you have clearly done a great job as a mother. Acrobat is very lucky in his allocation of mum and older brother.

It is a lovely day to be born :)

Mixxy · 25/07/2013 08:45

Ah I knew I'd be in tears. What a wonderful son you have. Cant wait to hear about your second.

Badvoc · 25/07/2013 08:48

I endured a 3 day early labour with ds2 and it's not nice.
They broke my waters when I was 4cm and ds2 was delivered 3 hours later :)
So, induction isn't always stressful or bad :)

themidwife · 25/07/2013 08:56

Yeah sometimes enough is enough. When's your due date?

BerylStreep · 25/07/2013 09:25

Waves, please will you let the hospital know that you have had a really bad headache? I don't want to be alarmist, but can that not be a sign of pre eclampsia?

I'm no medical bod, and I know we have knowledgeable peeps on here, buti think you need to phone the hospital to let them know.

wavesandsmiles · 25/07/2013 09:32

Ill let hospital know about everything. My due date is Monday so hopefully they will be proactive and have a good idea on what to do. My lift should be here any minute so not long til I'm up there.

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FoofFighter · 25/07/2013 09:46

Your DS is so sweet Waves :) almost made me cry there!

Good luck at the hospital, I hope they can help you out somehow xx

minkembernard · 25/07/2013 09:57

another one saying, really tell them about the headache asap! at thus stage that needs checking out immediately. better to be safe.
good luck for it being today.

Damnautocorrect · 25/07/2013 09:59

Just delerking to wish you well, sending all the positive vibes I can your way.
Good luck waves xx

Boosiehs · 25/07/2013 10:01

Good luck today waves and fingers crossed for acrobat's arrival!

themidwife · 25/07/2013 10:06

Good luck Waves!! Thanks

DonkeysDontRideBicycles · 25/07/2013 10:34

Big reward indeed that is so true! 3rd time you will be holding lovely newborn, what a lovely brother + sister he'll have! Smile.

Keep thinking of that special tree in York. Keep going waves.

ClairesTravellingCircus · 25/07/2013 10:36

Good morning waves, your ds is absolutely lovely Smile, I also welled up reading what he said.
Good luck at the hospital, really hope Acrobat makes his appearance today, you deserve it! ThanksThanks

Abilee90 · 25/07/2013 10:49

Good luck today autumn! I really hope little one comes ASAP for u. Fingers crossed for hosp deciding to induce.
Hugs and hand holding xxx

GaryBuseysTeeth · 25/07/2013 10:54

Oh waves, what a bloody star your DS is!
I'm sending you all the best vibes & hoping everything is going well for you. xxx Flowers

FringeEvent · 25/07/2013 10:56

Good luck waves, thinking of you xx