Have NC for this.
It's a bolt from the blue.
DS (23) announced yesterday to his Father that his Girlfriend (of 3 years) is pregnant.
DH gave me this news this morning at breakfast.
Both of them are at Uni therefore not financially independant and DH has decided that we will fund them both for next 2 years until DS has qualified.
They've got it all sorted.
It's like history repeating itself only we were financially stable when our happy accident (DS) happened.
I've spoken to DS who said it was an accident. In this day and age accidents don't happen do they?
I don't know whether to jump for joy or cry my eyes out.
They had all the time in the world to have kids.
This is life changing stuff.
Can't help but think they've left it this long (3 months) to tell us because over here that's the cut off for abortion.
My beautiful boy is going to be a father before he's had time to really enjoy life and girlfriend will be a mother at 23 (i find 23 year olds in general lacking the maturity my generation had)
I sound like an awful person i know. I'm sure once the baby's here i'll be overjoyed, but for the moment feel raw and sad.
Please give me reassurance.