'I'm like a man' dontcha know! (so if I'm like a man, how does his interest in me fit into that?) and 'I'll die alone of cancer' (lovely, thanks).... these were just some of the beauties Mink that s EA!
this: he basically threw all kinds of nonsense at me this is exactly right, its nonsense. Mine speaks nonsense. Even when you stand and say everything completely rationally, and try every way you can to make yourself clear, like you did, and still irrational rubbish spews force, that EA!
He did it in front of the kids thats bad father behaviour and EA to them.
for you making your point regardless of his nonsense. and noting 'he won't change'! 
indeed
I wouldn't expect apologies from him tho 
, that ain't the way it works sadly. he's got to do what he does. We apologise to them, at times when its necessary, so they can feel the difference.
love the rising both hands to stick fingers up Pony great childish gesture of non-acceptance and rebellion against it.
I did a lengthy post before that (seems to have gone up in MN smoke, and hadn't ctrl C'd 
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...was basically to do a wave hello to all lovely ladies, and sending ((hugs)).
ME taking control of MY life, is ME taking control of mine, not HIS! still find that a shocker, have spent so long listening to my assertions for myself being turned into controls of him! I'll stop jumping eventually, like when someone keeps saying boo.
Great to hear you ranting Tis... keep at it 
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hope Match and mini match ((hugs)) and all who suffering along with LOs xx
thanks for kind words xxxx