The train has departed Loserville - Next stop Happy Town.

[LoserNoMore]

Just went to post on my other thread but it's full already!

I'll attempt to link it but I'm on my phone so probably won't work.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/1726699-Last-train-to-Loserville-Part-2

Excuse the cheesy title, my brain won't work. Just going to read last few replies on old thread.

[KatieScarlett2833]

I make no apologies over the use of the word "skank" to describe this particular OW.
She knew she was shagging a husband and father. His dick did not accidentally fall into her vaj.
She had met OP so must be a brazen beatch to even go there.
She was daft enough to get up duffed by another woman's husband.
Ergo, skank
Second prize is therefore good enough for the skank.

[LoserNoMore]

I emailed him back saying '

I hope you don't make a habit of cancelling on the dd's, they miss you and would appreciate and benefit from seeing you. Just for the record I passed you in your car yesterday with her. I don't appreciate being lied to and having to tell the girls you have to work when you quite clearly weren't working. I would hate to think they were bottom of your priorities, they deserve better than that. If you decide to prioritise other people over them then don't make arrangements in the first place. Let me know when you're ready to put a concrete arrangement in place to see them. I accept things can crop up like work, I have no problem with that but lying isn't on when it comes to seeing your girls. The balls in your court, but you cant just pick and choose when you want to see them then drop them like a hot brick.Bye.

[cjel]

Phew and breath!! Its all out there now so well done, he can't misunderstand that, but don't be surprised if he make some excuse about working but just 'popped out to give OW a lift' or something. Hope contact hasn't upset you too much.xx

[Doha]

Great email LNM lets see how he squirms out that one.

[Loulybelle]

Well done LNM, dont let him get away with being a shit to little girls who dont deserve it, bad enough hes doing it to you.

[LoserNoMore]

It was longer than I intended! I had to be careful not to rant, it doesn't sound like I'm angry does it?

[Thisisaeuphemism]

Cool as ever, LNM.

[Loulybelle]

LNM, It sounds like your an annoyed mother, and we all would be, he needs to know that messing DD's around is just not on and you wont tolerate it.

[HighJinx]

LNM You are awesome

[PyroclasticFlo]

Brilliant email LNM, just cross enough on behalf of your girls but without losing your cool or making it seem as if you were upset by seeing him with OW. Beautifully judged. Lets hope the stupid bastard wakes up and realises that he is in danger of being an even shitter dad than he was a husband.

[KatieScarlett2833]

Nice work, couldn't have put it better

[cjel]

Sounded like you were cross but only on behalf on your dds, not for yourself at all.x

[LoserNoMore]

Annoyed mother I can deal with. I am annoyed. I won't mention the fact it hurts like hell for me as his wife :(

[Loulybelle]

We know it hurts, LNM, thats just information, he doesnt need, last thing that idiot needs is another ego boost

[getthegirladrink]

[LoserNoMore]

The last thing I want is to give him the satisfaction of knowing it upset me.

[cjel]

Yes thats what you share among friends who know how pain really feels not a man who would like to have the ego boost of knowing. Have a good cry if you need it?x

[imtheonlyone]

Top email lnm - really to the point. Hopefully will make him think long and hard about the kind of father e wants to be.

Big respect also to what you've been through today. Long wait that's annoying! Fingers crossed all will be ok x

[Somethingtothinkabout]

De-lurking to pay that you are fantastic, if you were my friend/sister/daughter I would be so bloody proud of how dignified you have been with this, and how you have kept in control of yourself. It really is admirable.

You're email to him was perfect, both in tone and content.

[LoserNoMore]

Thanks you, I re wrote that email about a hundred times!

On another note I think I have cystitis, peeing for Scotland all day long.

[LoserNoMore]

Sorry just thought I'd share that last bit, I'm not sure why!

[Loulybelle]

Share away LNM, i've been suffering with thrush for 4 MONTHS, its been itchy and depressing as hell, so i know how you feeling.

[imtheonlyone]

Share away!!

[LoserNoMore]

Thrush, for 4 months?! You poor thing.

[Loulybelle]

Yeah LNM, 3 types of anti biotics, and 5 different creams and just started to clear up, i wont start on the tears on both front and back openings, and the peeling skin. Not been a nice 4 months.