Last train to Loserville Part 2

[LoserNoMore]

After the overwhelming support I've received on my thread I had to start another. Well I didn't have to but I have found all the advice so helpful that even if I only receive one more piece it will help.

I'll try and post the link to the full sorry story. Never linked on my phone before so it may not work.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/1722750-This-doesnt-look-good-does-it?pg=40&order=

Any news lnm

Lnm I am so so sorry :( what a complete and total twunt. And I am so sorry for the loss of your own baby earlier.

You have been through more than one can find words for and stayed so classy and warm and focused in your DDs. They are lucky to have you.

LNM what an awful bit of news.

I do wonder whether it's true however. I can't help imagining the scene where your Ex is doing the "Poor me, I miss my kids soooo much" thing, and the OW thinking: "I wish he'd stop boring on about those kids, I know, I'll give him something to think about . . . "

Friend didn't show, took dd's out for dinner. Got a text from her saying sorry had to work late. Oh well.

Who knows if it's true, it'll come out eventually, just feeling a bit sad and sorry for myself now ,

yes, but if the OW is lying, it will all come out. Besides, I doubt twunt would make that shit up. Because all he has done is alienate himself further from LNM.

Im sorry your friend is late. That pisses me off too. BIG TIME. And you are more restrained than me. She would have got until 5 and then I would have fed the kids and myself, or ordered my own take away. That is just rude, whether something important has happened or not a quick text explaining why only takes a minute max.

oops x post. sorry LNM you are having a crappy weekend re friends and ex.

If it makes you feel any better I have a bloody horrendously sore ear. havent had that since I was a child!

Thanks sunbeam

Oh shit jax, sore ears are horrible, hope not too sore.

I'm not surprised you feel sad. What a shit couple of weeks it's been :(

I want to say tho, your strength, pragmatism, and general loveliness does shine out in every post - even if you struggle with baths- ;)

one day all this will just be a memory and you're be so proud of how you got you and the dcs through it.

I'm de-lurking to say how sorry I am.. What a complete twunt and it must have just turned your world upside down again!

Jax i can trump a sore ear, but i wont coz its horrid

Im sipping lemsip and got a hot water bottle.

I would much rather be sipping wine and holding a hottie.

Oh my fucking god! I second whoever mention chopping his balls off.

I hope you've enjoyed your day, your bound to feel up and down. The diary is a good IDEa

LNM
Your ex is a gobshite. Pure and utter gobshite. What a mess. But, like you say, HIS mess although it must be said that I'm also very dubious of the OW's timing
Sorry for not replying sooner. Am in hospital. Only now have access to my phone how I worship at the alter of wireless but my jaw hit the deck when I read your post. FFS, what a bloody gobshite.
My heart cracked a little when I heard about the loss of your little baby - I'm so sorry about that LNM, so sorry. You've had about as much as anyone can cope with but still your dignity shows. I think I'm in awe of you. I really do.

Cabbage, I hope you're ok too.

How horrid for your friend to let you down like that without letting you know. Well done for taking dcs out at least they would have felt special. I hope you don't mind having a weepy evening, my worst time of day is when i've finished my busy day rush in for tea and then - nothing!! Carry on resting and having an early night (without a Bath) and you can be fresh and shiny for a new day tomorrow.xx

Thank you for your lovely comments

LittleEsme, I hope you're ok. At the risk of sounding like a nosey bugger, it's not measles is it? I remember I you mentioning the possibility of measles.

No, not measles, although I was very suspicious that it was for a little while.

Got mild pneumonia. Was admitted in the early hours. Couldn't breathe --and DH almost fainted when I, in complete airless panic, prepared to do a DIY tracheoctomy (total desperation). Soooo, I'm sat here, totally unimpressed and fecking COLD. It's bloody freezing here!

Ah. Strikeout fail.

And no, you're not a nosey bugger. Not at all. Have a glass for me!

Holy shit! You poor thing, hope you're feeling better soon, that's awful. I'll definitely have a glass for you.

In fact, who am I kidding, I'm on tea. Alcohol might tip me over the edge.

esme get better soon. Can you ask for another blanket/duvet? I hate being cold.

LNM, lemsip worked. I also had a cup of tea. Sometimes a cuppa is whats needed.

Glad the Lemsip worked Jax. Tea and Jaffa Cakes here, hardcore Saturday night.

Alcohol is a depressant - last thing you need at the mo.

You keep on as you are LNM, you are doing great.