I know that I am going to get flamed here. The only reason I am posting is because I know that something needs to change and I dont know where to start.
I am a regular poster and have changed my name for obvious reasons.
I am divorced. I have 2 teenage children and I have been having an affair with a married man for 2 years.
I am in love with him, he says he is in love with me but I am not stupid, I know that he will never leave his family.
He has many reasons for having an affair which I wont go into, but his wife is a nice person and she does not deserve this. He is never unkind about her, when he talks of her he tells me what a good mother she is and a kind person.
I dont know how to stop. I know that the easy answer is to just 'stop' but I cant, I have tried many, many times but I cant.
Sorry to be blunt, but I need to be honest here. The main reason that I cant stop is because the sex is out of this world. I have never experienced anything like it with anyone else and cant imagine that I will ever again. He makes me feel amazing, I have a very high sex drive and so does he.
It has to end I know it does, but how?
(I know I am a bad person, etc. etc., but telling me that will not help me out of this situation)
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Nevertruetomyself · 25/03/2013 11:39
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