Thank you all for the support! I just think its really crap of him to keep zoning in on the one thing I'm missing in my life. I think the reason he does it is because he is trying to show me that I should have a man in my life. And he thinks I don't want one, I really do but I'm not settling for one that I just don't want enough.
When he got home he tried calling me twice! I didn't answer and he left me a voicemail saying that was a pointless argument and he doesn't want to fall out with me. But he didn't say sorry for attacking me about my
Own life! He said call me later if you want to make friends.
We are usually very Close and I always try to support him when he has problems etc, but I don't feel I get that back from him. Which used to be ok as he is my younger brother, bug as he thinks he's such an adult then starting to feel like the support should go both ways.
I feel like texting him to explain that him going on about me being a single
Mum and being alone every night, and with my bad leg having to stay at my mums and not having a partner to support me etc, is like me saying to him "oh you never have any money, you can never hold down a job, you and your gf are very overweight" but I don't say those things and zone in on the negative things in his life. Instead I encourage him to get a job and help him to prepare and advise him on other ways to find jobs etc. and I encourage him to exercise and say that I know he can reach his goals instead of putting him down.
I wonder if I should text him to explain this?