Dating thread no 45

[JulietteMontague]

Online and real life dating chat, all welcome

Oh Velv....I feel for you...Sleepeaze tomorrow..do it!

Oh I just hate the idea that bullies get away with things Lubes....

Velv try having a really hot cup of tea, drink it down fast as you can... then go straight back to bed before you wake up too much. Works for me sometimes if I get woken by something. No idea how i discovered it.

I never wanted to get married until I hit 30. I want a nice husband though, nothing like any ex I've ever had. I may be waiting a while!

I have a date! A coffee with small letters. I'm not that attracted to his pictures but he said something when we were chatting that made me a bit weak at the knees so I agreed to coffee. We shall have to see if there's any spark.

I am really looking forward to my weekend date. Glad it's nearly Wednesday already!

What did he say Jan??? Can you tell with all those question marks that I'm getting vicariously over-excited??

I'm not sure I should say on here.

Lets just say he mentioned something i'm rather partial to in the Coffee department.

Oh for god's sakes' Jan I will be vair, vair surprised if it is more shocking than anything that has already been mentioned on this thread ...

OOOOh you tease Jan! A bit of anal fisting hmmmm?????

yeah get your bumhole bleached first jan.

No definitely not anal fisting, it's not that bad!

And waxed ...

:o

Wine yes it took me years as I had to start again. I had to leave significant stuff as I had a small window of time to out before he would know. As as anyone who has been in a relationship like that knows, the after effects take years to shake off. No counselling in those days.

Ike I went to a main city then got a flight to the UK and my parents. My Mum just saw being married as an end in itself so it was clear I was just being awkward. I came to their house black and blue and a bit deaf in one ear and no one once commented on my face. I was 'flighty' and it was clear she thought I'd brought it on myself somehow. I couldn't stand that so I left my parents after a week, moved to London and stayed in a squat with a friend. I got a work outfit, got some work temping, eventually got back on my feet.

...see will be nothing we havent already discussed a great length Jan dont worry!!

Nothing to do with anal at all.

Have just been on the phone to a wikivorce person. Need to sort out this divorce thing. Should be straight forward ish as both XH and I talk about it and are fairly happy with how we want to split things. Would like to just wave wand and be done really.

We met at 19, he was my first boyfriend (he had had a couple of girlfriends) and married at 24. Had split up a couple of times before that and should have stayed split. But then the DC wouldn't be here so I am conflicted .

Snape I don't know what you are meant to call people who are boyfriends/significant others/partners/whatever. Part of me would like to get married again but I think more in a daft daydream way.

House is a tip. This is a good thung about not living with anyone - no one needs to know or care

so i was supposed to be on a 3rd date tonight. he said 'lets just leave it as it is. i can't come i have a girlfriend"
im shocked. what a lying cheating fool but part of me doesn't even believe him there's no evidence of a girlfriend on his Facebook. don't know what to think

God Jule....so tough and with zero family support too....I guess the only positive thing to come out of such trauma is that you KNOW you are able to survive and have good coping skills.

I haven't been talking dirty. It was just a few comments that made me think hmmm.

I don't do filthy messages until I know them and preferably have already had sex... I need to know the chemistry is actually there and what exactly they are like in bed before I can allow myself to be worked up or fantasise enough about it to send filth

Castro that's rubbish :(