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WarmFuzzyFun · 23/02/2013 17:27

Here it is...

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ike1 · 26/02/2013 20:24

Oh me too Kin...but they have to know when to shurrrrup and listen...

ike1 · 26/02/2013 20:27

oh no mrs c thats sooo crap...oh lovely...

ike1 · 26/02/2013 20:28

Do you think it is shitty and thoughtless mrs c ?

mercury7 · 26/02/2013 20:30

I agree, mentioning other dates is a serious offense!!
I'd not mention other aspects of my personal life unless someone asked and a while ago when a bloke I was seeing wanted to confide in me about a woman he was interested in I was furious and broke it off there & then.

I find fwb is often a headfuck, it's just a slightly lesser evil compared to proper relationship and no sex life Confused

KinNora · 26/02/2013 20:31

Oh aye I married a man who, some years into the marriage, told me that he didn't ' really like talking to women' .

ike1 · 26/02/2013 20:32

Righto merc ...you have the truth now kin....you decide...

ike1 · 26/02/2013 20:33

oh dear lord kin....tho i remember you were covent educated,,,

KinNora · 26/02/2013 20:37

I'm planning on travelling to his home city ( mainly because it's a place I've never visited ) , booking myself a slightly fancy hotel room as a birthday present to me and then if his snogging is up to scratch, I may show him a good time or not, see how I feel.

KinNora · 26/02/2013 20:39

Well remembered, Ike, yes I was. No issues with sex here, no sirreee

ike1 · 26/02/2013 20:40

Well ok Kin ...will the hotel have a spa? just incase of disappointment?

mercury7 · 26/02/2013 20:40

no no!
I handle all of my love life really badly!

MsCellophane · 26/02/2013 20:42

He replied - totally defensive, said I contacted him too much. Maybe I did but only ever answered his poxy messages, which were many! Arse!!!! yep, totally shitty and thoughtless and arrogant. I answered and pointed out that he messaged first, he was the one who said want to see you but next week all the time and his behaviour was shitty. So he sent one last message of no more contact and then the bastard blocked me before I could block him - and now I'm angry

budge up on the sofa people

KinNora · 26/02/2013 20:43

Yes, I reckon so, Ike. ( think it's not that far from you either, we could go on the raz ).

No, it's ok, Mercury, I won't hold you responsible for any hideous mistakes I make.

lubeybooby · 26/02/2013 20:43

Sounds like a good plan. I like fancy hotel rooms.

I'm meant to be going away from 9th - 13th March part business part just wanting to visit Scotland again for the sake of it. I do wish I had someone up that way I could call on to definitely possibly show a good time to!

God. this is what my mind goes like when it hits the month or so without sex... it's been just over 5 weeks... and I'm not even allowed to til next week

KinNora · 26/02/2013 20:48

Oh I didn't know you liked Scotland, Lubey. I love it up there except it's where Spud lives

ike1 · 26/02/2013 20:51

Kin if it get boring you can pm me (may have the kids tho)

ike1 · 26/02/2013 20:52

Oh and Mrs c WHAAAT???

lubeybooby · 26/02/2013 20:54

My fave place in the world so far Nora. Try and get up there as much as I can. I usually stay in the Cairngorms and travel about a bit. Though I'm not good for the walking and scenery at the moment with my back so doing cities instead!

mercury7 · 26/02/2013 20:55

what a fucker he is Msc, how horribly disappointing that he behaved like that:(

lubeybooby · 26/02/2013 20:56

MsC that is really shit

ike1 · 26/02/2013 20:56

That Mrs C is a bit well totally spineless and warranting your anger...very sorry lovely...you have not invited that response...

KinNora · 26/02/2013 20:58

That sounds like a bullet dodged, MsC, he's a pig-ignorant quarter-wit.

Bant · 26/02/2013 20:58

Eurgh. I got chatting to a couple next to me in a bar in Budapest. The guy speaks no English so I'm trying to chat to him in basic Hungarian and German. The girl (his GF) is fairly fluent in English and they've had a row.

So she is telling me the Hungarian for 'kiss' (which incidentally is 'pussy') and for 'blowjob' ( which is their word for trombone. I'm sure you can see why)
And he's oblivious. Sat next to his girlfriend who is stunning and funny and flirting outrageously with some random English guy, smiling at me as I say something about what I do for my job in German.

Fuckity fuck. I shall leave soon. Alone.

MissC he sounds like a twat. It's experience and helps you find a better guy next time

KinNora · 26/02/2013 21:00

I love it, Lubey, spent a lot of time up there over the last four years and thought I was probably going end up living there, it always felt like home.

ike1 · 26/02/2013 21:03

Oh dear Bant....sounds dark...