My ex is the biggest and baddest prick out of all of the pricks out there!!
And I was a total mug for staying with him for so long
He left me within 5 weeks of moving in, to go back to an xgf who then began emailing me vile stuff and silent phoning me all during the night.
He came back and then over the next few years left another 4 times to go back to same xgf.
We made an agreement that he would pay rent, council tax and monthly bills, while I would pay for the things you could see immediately food, petrol, his cigarettes.
He didn't have a car so used mine to get to and from work, and I just kept filling it up with petrol while he drove it around.
He didn't pay any of the rent/council tax/bills while he was here, so all in all, he left me £18000+ in debt.
He was violent.
He was EA.
He always made sure I had no money and you couldn't even treat him without him taking the fucking piss, a chinese takeaway always ended up costing at least £30 just for him, because of course I was paying, thinking he was paying his share.
He gambled.
He lied.
He stole money and goods from me and pawned them, money and goods from DS and pawned them, money from DD.
He chatted up women online and then went to meet them at my expense without telling me.
He embellished what I had confided in him, then told people who I mentioned when I had spoken to him in confidence.
He kicked my door in.
He called the police on me whenever I went out without telling him where I was going, saying I had MH issues and was not safe out on my own, even though this was not true.
He threatened to drop DD once because I couldn't take her from him immediately.
He left DD in the middle of a room I was sorting out, with all manner of things surrounding her and fucked off out because I wasn't showing him 100% of my attention!!
He has paid about £700 maintenance in 4 years and has stolen £800 more from me in that time.
He has never maintained contact with DD, and has left her waiting at the window for hours.
He tells everyone who will listen that I am evil, vile, nuts, crazy, not mentally fit to look after a child, yet he has never looked after DD on his own.
He has made numerous unsubstantiated allegations to SS, just to piss me off.
He accused my DS of sexually abusing DD, which was again unfounded.
He calls the police to come and check DD is safe with me, yet ignores her for up to a year when he meets someone new.
He convinced one gf to support him in his quest for residency, and between them, they made so many allegations to SS that I seriously wanted to fucking emigrate.
He refuses to have contact with DD so I can work, yet looks after his gf's DS and wont contribute anything financially, so I am constantly on my arse money wise and am stressed and I honestly think I will die in shitloads of debt.
He even threatened my friends with a gun, which they thought was real, but which was a BB gun.
He wiped green snot on the underside of my sofa cushions and left it to go hard.
Yes, he cooked. Yes, he cleaned. Yes, he was a hands on dad when he was here with DD.
But, he always made sure he cooked enough for 10 people, hence increasing the food bill, rang endless mobiles, just to chat, rang 0902 numbers when I was working evenings, and he could use a 500ml bottle of kitchen cleaner in a day, and I'm sure it was so I had to buy more!!!
