This is.. the dating chat thread, number 38

[lubeybooby]

All dating related chit chat, as usual... in here

off we go! :o

No probs lube, see you there.x

it's been moved now :)

Hmmmmm.

Shortest chemistry in the world. Quite what caused yesterdays i dont know. Possibly the excitment of it all.

Hes still very good looking, house is lovely, just something vanished. And thenit vanished even more. And then further till actually i felt quite awkward. I would not date him.

Then after all that he said he wasnt after anything heavy. Which offended me slighlty as,well, you know.

So, yep. Weird. I am home now and dont expect to see him again.

There was also a distint lack of broken sinks.

I am very disappointed on your behalf watch & a bit what do you think he had the first time that he didnt have the second? is he expecting to see you again? 'nothing heavy' indeed. grr.

Watch that is pure crap! At least you were able to enjoy the feeling for a bit? (clutches for straws...)

not half as confused as i am!!!

i think, if im honest, yesterday was a charm offensive. and then hormones from all the kissing.

We had sex, then he put the tv on to watch man v food, for gods sake, leaving me, a perplexed girl next to him in bed. That is not someone i want to date.

I dont know if he is or not. Im just going to leave it.

i know, and the nothing heavy thing is annoying, its not like i asked him to move in with me, it was a second date!

Oh no watch!

Well I got a text from the Hughjackmanbarman at 03:44 saying just 'xx' .. Should I reply?? This is the first I've heard from him in a week ...

you had sex (how was the sex?) & then he watched 'man vs food'?

Conflicted because I am partial to a bit of Man Vs Food.

I'd probably keep that side of myself hidden on a second date though!

I'd reply to hughjackmanbarman on the basis of a spectacular rebound shag, not on the basis of anything concrete or long term developing. the weeks silence is a bit annoying, but its a booty call...as long as youre ok with it being a booty call then fire ahead.

snape xx is not much of a conversation opener .. Hmm don't know I may reply later if I can think of something sufficiently witty (any help accepted!)

well yes! that did occur to me. I'd reply '?!' & then get on with something else.

just reply with some xxx's too.

the sex was not the best. and short.
ok, thinks i, maybe just over excitment. but no, second go was shorter.
attentive he is not.

and yes, then man v food went on, i was a bit like' you are joking' and he said no, so i tried to be ok with it, but, you know, you have just had sex for the first time, you do not expect for someone to roll over and watch man v food a min or so after.

see, this is why i would not date him. I might fancy him, but that is shitty behaviour.

That is shitty watch

essentially, his behaviour changed immediatley after we had done it. When igot there he was lovely, i got a foot rub and cuddles, and then after sex i got man v food.

he might as well have slapped you on the arse & sent you to the kitchen to make him a cuppa.

he did ask. i told him to fuck off.

Oh Watch, that's shitty behaviour indeed! Who'd do that?!

Surely he should be all endorphined up and preparing for the next round?

Do you think he kept it short especially because he knew his favourite programme was due on? Honestly, he doesn't want anything heavy, but is acting as though you've been married 20 years and just fancied a quickie in the ad break!

Hi, Middy, no pain yesterday or today (other than - TMI - after I poo, but that's been the same all along), and just the tiniest of spotting, so feeling a bit more relaxed, but still expecting the worst, IYKWIM. Thank you, and everyone else, for thinking of me. I live on my own, and although I have good friends locally, all my close friends live at least an hour away, so your support has meant the world.

He asked you to make him a brew ? After sex ? I wonder if he's been whisked forward in a time machine to 2013 from 1953. I'm sorry he turned out to be a bit rubbish, Watch.

Sorry, Kirsty, meant to say to you that i think Snape's right, the 'xx' out of the blue and late at night is not someone wanting a relationship. If you're ok with a casual thing with hughjackmanbarman, then go for it! He's hot, Coffee was hot....

flipper, no, i think hes just selfish.
no excuses, just that.

sounds like the worst might not happen... monday was a scan, wasnt it?

Flipper, I'm glad you're feeling a little more relaxed, I think everyone on here just wants everything to work out well for you.

and food, he wanted me to make food.

he did ask several times.

see, told you, ended up feeling awkward.

Oh well, on the plus side i looked bloody good last night, if i do say so myself. and, er, i have pain au chocolates for breakfast.

( not even going to wonder why im enternally single and cant find someone nice)

Morning all

Watch, oh my god. I wasn't expecting that at all, more like snapes envisagement of all sinks within a 12 mile radius broken. Oh my god. and he asked you to make him a cuppa?

I would be massively offended about the telly as well. I don't have my TV on when I have someone over. It's rude. Full stop! I put music on sometimes but aside from that they have my full attention. I don't care if it's his fave programme, feckin record it, or catch up later online, all main channels have a catch up thing now.

Kirsty yes, reply, reply! Update please?

Flipper big hug for you