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This is.. the dating chat thread, number 38

999 replies

lubeybooby · 25/01/2013 15:38

All dating related chit chat, as usual... in here

off we go! :o

OP posts:
watchoutforthatsnail · 28/01/2013 20:31

48, in the summer, when i was dating that one, i was cumming so hard, i was getting crippling headaches, like instant, have to shut my eyes, hold my head in pain, scream out, type pain. Spoke to the doctor, when i was there for other things. turns out its tension, i was cumming too much, who knew!!! so it was greating too much pressure/ tension.

Snapespeare · 28/01/2013 20:36

No Sad coffee would be in gallery/museum... But they do also serve Wine

I'm not generally enamoured of alcohol-on-a-first date... But I'm a bit excited about this one, based on intelligence, charm, excellent activist credentials & devastating good looks. A drink or two would take the edge off...

48howdidthathappen · 28/01/2013 20:38

Yeah like that watch had to stop mid stride so to speak. Pain went in about half an hour. Bloody strange isn't it. I am hoping it doesn't happen again.

SkaffenAmtiskaw · 28/01/2013 20:40

Hi guys, have been out of the game for a couple of weeks because of health problems that were making me feel crap.

Yesterday I felt better so emailed Mr HotYoga but he's found someone else in the meantime :(

He says he gets on really well with her but I thought we were getting on very well, obviously I thought so more than he :(

Looking on OKC it's a bit same old, same old... I've messaged a few guys but nothing came out of it. One is nice but lives too far and doesn't drive. Feel like giving up again...

watchoutforthatsnail · 28/01/2013 20:48

yeah, like that.
i think it was when we were going at it for hours and hours and hours though. once it calmed down to only a few times a night, then it went.

48howdidthathappen · 28/01/2013 20:57

Oh bloody hell can't see it calming down any time soon Blush

Nomorepain · 28/01/2013 20:59

I waited 2 hours then text him back. He replied straight away. The op is just a little one but an op none the less. It is genuine - mutual friends confirmed. He asked me how I've been and what I've been upto. I will leave it a while before I reply. I am trying to be cool but failing miserably. I really like him. The fact it is difficult makes me like him even more.

I am a fool - thanks for the wet fish. I need about 20 of them!!!

watchoutforthatsnail · 28/01/2013 21:02

48, if they get too painful, it might have to. ine started off as just one.. and then it was just too painful to do anything at all. i couldnt even do it myself!!! ridiclous.

in other news i have a date on thur with the most deliciously scruffy, long haired, stubbled, pierced, tattooed man. Hurrah.

lubeybooby · 28/01/2013 21:11

Nomore - there's no sense in, or reason for leaving it a while if you're actually having a text conversation.. leaving it is for when they haven't text you despite ball being in their court or when you've asked a question, or they have dumped you, and stuff like that

OP posts:
48howdidthathappen · 28/01/2013 21:11

Watch been texting Mr R&R, told him we need a long session at the weekend to see if it happens again Grin

Good luck on your date.

watchoutforthatsnail · 28/01/2013 21:23

tmi, but im presuming you screw your face up when you cum.... i do, i didnt know that...but that wont help. not if you are cuming lots and lots and lots of times.

yeah, date should be good, hes very good looking. im not expecting any fleece either...... :)

48howdidthathappen · 28/01/2013 21:26

I have no idea, but Mr R&R has said a few times 'you need to breathe' Confused

MsCellophane · 28/01/2013 21:46

I've had the headache thing but never with another person (oops)

It's horrid

Still not plucked up courage to say anything to MrCM but we've been having chatty texts back and forth. No 3rd date planned

I have changed my pof to looking for long term and changed the wording and put a more demure pic up - see if he notices Grin

I actually think I prefer meeting up with people I don't like very much. I hate liking someone and wanting to see them

mercury7 · 28/01/2013 21:59

dont remember getting sex induced headaches but I get a blocked up nose..apparently there is erectile tissue in the nose!

48howdidthathappen · 28/01/2013 22:08

Don't know which is worse mercury

MsC Could you get another gremlin Grin

ike1 · 28/01/2013 22:11

Merc I have heared that! Mad huh!?

Nomorepain · 28/01/2013 22:17

MsC - completely understand. It's torture isn't it!!

mercury7 · 28/01/2013 22:20

today I was offered sex with '2 men and a thai lady' (as in 'hello, we are 2 men and a thai lady')
also a transvestite..not bad for a days work :o

mercury7 · 28/01/2013 22:21

I hate liking someone and wanting to see them
yes but I only want to sleep with someone if I like them, sooo
catch 22 Confused

ike1 · 28/01/2013 22:25

Benefits of being single number: 6969
I have just spilled the remnants of my hot choc on the bed sheet...looks like a particularly dirty protest...do I change them? Nope! Who cares!!

mercury7 · 28/01/2013 22:29

you'll have a lovely chocolate sent wafting over to give you delicious dreams:o

VelvetSpoon · 28/01/2013 22:29

I've never had the sex induced headache but I did cause one once!

And just to add while I'm here (and as proof that miracles really do happen!) I have a 4th date on Friday Grin

ike1 · 28/01/2013 22:31

Double benefits Merc. 4th Velv!!! congrats! Please prompt my aging brain..who with?

Scrazy · 28/01/2013 22:32

Urgh, POF is just dire for me. I have my profile hidden and about 3 men in my inbox, who I have chatted to a few times but no-one suggests meeting. As I'm hidden I have to make first contact, found what one tonight who seemed like a diamond in the rough, so messaged him and he replied a few times but then nadda.

I've never had problems before and will put it down to 1) messaging them and 2) going into a different decade age wise. I'm too old :(

Still cannot pluck up the courage to get some better pics and rewrite my profile as I cannot see anyone else that I fancy.

I might have to stay on the sofa for ever.

Scrazy · 28/01/2013 22:33

Velvet, who with?