How much noise is it 'normal' to make during sex? (TMI alert!)

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When I'm having sex I like to make a lot of noise and er ....express myself. My ex liked it and said it spured him on. My new bf is worried that it will annoy the nieghbours and dosn't like it much. TBH when I'm doing it I couldn't give a shit what the neighbours think as I am enjoying it too much!
I could try toning it down a bit but there is no way I am going to remain silent. With my last dp we once did it outside in a secluded area and I still didn't shut up; cue giggles and piss taking from some distant passers by! It dosn't really bother me although I am aware that some people might find it odd.
This new man isn't at all serious so I am not going to change styles. So my question is; are you noisy during sex? It seems that I am noisier than most men but then I imagine many women are. Is it odd to want to make a lot of noise during sex?

Me? When I go down on OH, I'm like a dog eating hot chips!

I heard recently that there's an evolutionary reason for women to make more noise than men when having sex, something to do with calling other men over for a gang bang to better ensure insemination if I remember correctly! Not sure how seriously to take that though!

I like to be very vocal and not hold back, I also like a good bit of dirty talk, me and my current man are very expressive! I don't think you should try and silence yourself, it helps you get into it, what's the harm?

Is he generally up for it and good in the sack or is he a bit reserved?

He's pretty good; tbh we have only been togethr once and he didn't go down on me which is annoying. If he dosn't start going down there soon I will have to rethink...plus I love to make noise and I need to be with someone who likes the noise I make!

Apparently the most common name given to wireless networks is 'No. XX we can hear you having sex'

There are threads about this on here - it's awful to be able to hear other people having sex through a party wall. Fine if you have a detached house!

I know I do feel a bit sorry for the nieghbours but tbh I am not getting a lot atm so the disturbance is not continuous. I hope that this may change soon and if I start having regular sex with this guy then I will tone it down (a bit).

my neighbours once posted a note through my door asking me to kerp the noise down (not that nicely though). so I posted one back saying when we dint hear you argue ill be quiet.

as my DP says theres no point having sexy unless its 1.messy 2.loud 3. steamy

Yep; messy, loud and steamy= good in my books.

Hmm, the not going down is a bit of an issue - I wouldn't have that long term. Did you go down on him? He's either not very confident, selfish or not that into the pussy, none of which are very appealing!

Maybe his last ex didn't like receiving oral so he's become forgetful. There are women who don't like it.

Yeah I think there's no harm in asking, in a sexy way. He can always say no! Tbh I wouldn't stay with a guy who wouldn't go down.

I did go down on him. I enjoy it but I do expect a bit of lovin in return! Mabe he was worried that I would raise the roof with my orgasm. Apparently he's never been witha woman as noisy as me. I feel honoured.

I would have thought most guys would love it if a woman was noisy. Good for their fragile little egos!

Get yourself a ball gag, problem solved; you are both quieter and even sluttier. And that most definitely is slutty in a very good way, not in a critical way at all.

And don't even ask him about going down on you, when he's on his back, just climb up and sit on his face. He will love it :) Good luck pal, and make as much noise as you need.

You have only been with him once and you are annoyed he didnt go down?

You sound a bit intimidating tbh.

You sound rather bad mannered too

You don't give a shit about disturbing the neighbours ? Do you have kids...do you disturb them too with your caterwauling ?

Have a bit of dignity and keep the racket down like the rest of us.

Well this is nice.

I would find it a bit off putting and very fake tbh.

Try shaving (if you don't already). Eliminates the "hair pie" effect and makes the operation much more enjoyable..

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JaceyBee Sun 13-Jan-13 19:22:48
I heard recently that there's an evolutionary reason for women to make more noise than men when having sex, something to do with calling other men over for a gang bang to better ensure insemination if I remember correctly! Not sure how seriously to take that though!

How about, not at all.

Sounds like the usual mad evolutionary rape apology shit to me.

Oh soz, and wannabe! Blummin mobile app doesn't allow for checking

Anyway, who wants a gang bang again?

'I know I do feel a bit sorry for the nieghbours but tbh I am not getting a lot atm so the disturbance is not continuous. I hope that this may change soon and if I start having regular sex with this guy then I will tone it down (a bit).'

you already said your new b/f didn't like the noise you make & felt uncomfortable with it due to neighbours so doubt you'll be getting a lot coming your way soon. Time to find a new b/f or take your current b/f feelings into consideration.

Or accept you are not the first person to ever have sex and quit the attention-seeking warbling ?

Just a thought