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How much noise is it 'normal' to make during sex? (TMI alert!)

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superstarheartbreaker · 13/01/2013 19:16

When I'm having sex I like to make a lot of noise and er ....express myself. My ex liked it and said it spured him on. My new bf is worried that it will annoy the nieghbours and dosn't like it much. TBH when I'm doing it I couldn't give a shit what the neighbours think as I am enjoying it too much!
I could try toning it down a bit but there is no way I am going to remain silent. With my last dp we once did it outside in a secluded area and I still didn't shut up; cue giggles and piss taking from some distant passers by! It dosn't really bother me although I am aware that some people might find it odd.
This new man isn't at all serious so I am not going to change styles. So my question is; are you noisy during sex? It seems that I am noisier than most men but then I imagine many women are. Is it odd to want to make a lot of noise during sex?

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Porkster · 14/01/2013 00:13

What AF said.

fortyplus · 14/01/2013 00:14

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wannabedomesticgoddess · 14/01/2013 00:25

Maybe shes off annoying the neighbours again :o

BonkeyMollocks · 14/01/2013 00:28

Until AF post I thought i had stumped into shed full of teenagers Hmm

BonkeyMollocks · 14/01/2013 00:28

*stumbled

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JaceyBee · 14/01/2013 10:38

What's teenage about my posts? I mentioned a theory, not saying that it's gospel or even that I believe it, it's from a book called 'sex at dawn' about why monogamy goes against our nature, I didn't come up with it!

And that I wouldn't stay long term with a guy that wouldn't go down, well I wouldn't and what's wrong with that? Personal preference surely? Not sure why it makes me a 'teenager'?

blueshoes · 14/01/2013 10:46

OP: "It seems that I am noisier than most men"

Are men that noisy? Tries to recall ...

bumhead · 14/01/2013 10:51

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superstarheartbreaker · 14/01/2013 14:36

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ToeCap · 14/01/2013 14:45

You are making yourself sound more unpleasant with every post you make OP>

hf128219 · 14/01/2013 14:45

Do you normally jump into the sack with a bloke?

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superstarheartbreaker · 14/01/2013 14:50

This thread was meant to be a bit of a lighthearted thread btw. After being in abusive relationship with someone who made me feel about 80 it's good to feel like a silly teenager again. I think that playing the field is good at any time of life when single and making noises isn't fake. It just comes out! I think for me being quiet is not fake. If I was in a commited relationship with someone then I would take their preferences into consideration but not to the extent where I would completely change; that would mean incompatibility. Changed before to please a bloke; not going that way again.

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superstarheartbreaker · 14/01/2013 14:51

being quit is fake I meant. I was just buzzing after getting a much needed shag (dosn't happen v often; probably because i am a horrible girlfriend who is extremely selfish in bed and in general! Grin).

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BonkeyMollocks · 14/01/2013 14:56

OP Stop! Stop now!

superstarheartbreaker · 14/01/2013 14:56

I 'm not very classy really but hey never mind. Spring has come early on my council estate I can tell you! Grin

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izzyizin · 14/01/2013 15:01

Your sexual preferences are entirely your own choice, but I consider anyone who doesn't see any need to restict the amount of noise they make during the act out of courtesy to others to be vulgar in the extreme.

Why do you feel the need to advertise that you're getting your rocks off in public and in private? Have you no sense of decorum?

bumhead · 14/01/2013 15:03

If you can't handle people judging you about your hard attitude in relation to whoever you're shagging or your neighbours then don't post about your sex life on the internet.
Saying you couldn't give a shit about anyone else because you're getting some sets the pace and the tone.

MaureenShit · 14/01/2013 15:04

mimmy you sound a bit rough

MaureenShit · 14/01/2013 15:06

oh GOD OP PUT A SOCK IN IT

ew ew ew both posting and your relentless rutting

ChickensHaveNoEyebrows · 14/01/2013 15:06

Well really

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