it's a new dawn, it's a new day ..........it dating thread 36!

[lulubellaboozle]

Post away daters x

OWW, Lizard Man has an infection affecting a lower limb, I'm a broad minded, compassionate and professional woman and I've seen some truly surprising sights but I suspect a scaly penis dropped into casual conversation might have been too much even for me.

Jay, I've got to go out now so will reply properly later YOU HAVE LOTS TO OFFER. Never believe otherwise.

Jay I bet you a million quid you have absolutely tons to offer. It's because none of it has been appreciated that you think it isn't there. The first step is recognising little things yourself. Positive affirmation.

Please ditch the twat, he's no good for you - better to be single than put up with soul destroying rubbish.

Oh and... Jay...

I can tell from your posting you are intelligent and articulate. So there's two things. You also seem very kind and lovely. I think you're lovely. So there's four things and someone who thinks you are lovely. I guarantee you it's not just me who will ever think that.

Now drop the dead weight (twat bloke) and you'll be on the right road in no time! :o

That was a lovely post to read OWW :)

Lubey Mr Nice has a 17 year old DS and I think he is fine with the fact his dad and I are having a relationship but doesn't want to know too much .

Jay please dump this dead weight. You have no idea how much more you are worth than this.

Scatty I've no experience of this directly but I am sure it will be fine. You've had some great advice from people who know. Like so many things, the first time is the worst.

Jay sweetheart this man is doing you no good at all. Take back the power and ditch him. You have so much to offer and much, much more than this miserable man ever will. There's someone out there who has love and kindness to offer you so don't settle for less. Keep posting.

Thank you juliette and mrsa I really appreciate your responses, very heartening and I'm glad, above all, you are both well. I think I'm in a fizz because the fireman keeps calling me sexy. I keep thinking 'o god if only you knew'. I think I'll just say that's I've had an operation to rebuild a breast should the need arise to discuss or say something. He hasn't said anything derogatory about anything ever so I've no need to think he would think anything of my news.
Thanks again.
ike what's an octo?

Mr R&R has just left he is very good for me

JaY I have a saying 'behave like a doormat and some bastard will wipe his feet on you' There are plenty of decent men out there, dump the arsehole and set your sights on a good un. You are worth so much more

Scatty he won't think anything. I have pmd you.

I love how lovely and supportive this thread is. :)

OWW Yay! for legoland. Its coming together.

Lubey Lemsip its good stuff.

Scatty No personal experience. Fireman thinks you are sexy. Go for it

It bloody is, 48

An Octo Scatty is short for Otogenarian ...lovely gentleman fron my local...but a bit over my 'age range' requirements...

My DD is fine about Mr R&R. As long as she isn't around.

My DS on the other hand. Him being away in OZ does have one advantage

I have still got to write to Mr OZ. Been too difficult to do a fun letter, gonna just have to tell him the truth. Life is not all that rosy.

Jay, have you ditched the arse-faced, micro-penised, wank-nosed, personality-vacuum yet ? You know we're all right, do it, do it nahhhh ( that's my Ray Winston impression )

New Celt's reply has raised my hackles - he is a supercilious arse, it's not openly nasty, just patronising and twatty, do I send a snotty reply and block, block, or just ignore him forever ?

MsA supercilious arses are my speciality. I highly recommend passive aggressive killer response and block.

But if you just block with no explanation, he'll just go on and be patronising and supercilious to the next person. Surely if you explain, then block, he might be less of an arse to the next person. Wouldn't you prefer it if the last person he spoke to had done that to him, before he spoke to you?

But please share the passive aggressive killer response with us too!

Completely agree this is a lovely and supportive thread, a real tonic!

scatty I'm sure it will be fine, but I understand your concerns hopefully juliette's personal experience will put your mind at rest?

I think I am safe with MrExArmy and haven't fucked it up, need to have that grown up chat tomorrow and then keep working on sorting out these meltdowns! followed by some make up bedroom action

Ooh you lot, encouraging me to be arsey,

Oh go on then, you talked me into it...

Arse Reply. Enjoy. Block

' P,

Thank you so much for your prompt and comprehensive reply, may I just say that I found you quoting your earlier email to be particularly helpful as I'd forgotten quite how I irritated I was by it on first reading.

You have certainly demonstrated extraordinarily effectively why you prefer not to communicate via email, I am sure that both in person and on the phone your lyrical, twinkly Celtic charm is an irresistible force. This is not, sadly, the case on the page, where it is wholly absent.

With this in mind, I'm drawing a close to our correspondence as its fleeting diversionary value has now been exhausted.

Arse '

Arse brilliant! I particularly love the introduction I'd forgotten quite how irritated I was by it on first reading. oh my, I actually snorted and laughed out loud

Thank you, Lulu, I was going for ' fuck you, you muppet' channelling Lady Bracknell.

Arse That told him