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In need if a little help wrt AdultWork

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Ohcrud · 18/12/2012 19:50

Hi, I discovered on Friday night that my husband is a member of the website AdultWork. He asked me to read one of his emails as he was out and needed some info, when looking for the email I discovered an email saying his subscription to something was about to run out. I checked this out as have never heard of AdultWork before. I am furious with H! When he got back I gave him a bollocking and he said it was only porn and that he don't think it would bother me (I don't mind him watching porn).
I'm not an idiot and know this is not the same as regular porn and I'm not happy!
I am also rubbish with any kind of technology and was after a little help finding out what really went on. Some good mumsnet friends showed me to a recent thread about this and I have contacted a very kind mumsnetters who has also helped.
Basically he has subscribed to some profiles although these have now run out, the women he has subscribed to are all local to my area. I'm not quite sure what a subscription means.
Also he has been watching directcam things- is this simply watching or do you talk to/interact with these women?
I would appriciate the help as while all this has been going on I married the twunt and had our dc2- which has been very tough for me, and I am more than happy to leave if he has cheated. But obv I need proof as he won't admit to anything unless I have proof! He tried to deny any knowledge of the websites existence at first!!

Thanks

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DeanPorter · 04/01/2018 23:03

Firstly I have empathy for your situation, in saying what I am about to say, I don't condone his doing what his doing behind your back. And nor does what I am about to say mean that I'm involved by anything Adult work does, but I do know that DirectCam is a way of watching service providers doing agreed things of an adult nature. Also clips can be purchased and the way that works is a buyer can buy credits that can be used for getting clips, these clips can be posted by both male and female service providers, and vary on types of acts. Hope this helps but again I have empathy for you.

avangelinalilly123 · 05/01/2019 14:17

reading through this, it seems that not many have any experience of aw or what subscriptions mean on it. My partner and I have used the site together for webcam. you don't subscribe if you are meeting in person (the site is free to join and if you want to meet a couple or one escort you pay in cash or via bank transfer to the person not the site - the site subscriptions is for buying porn, items from the store on there and webcam). For those that are saying this isn't a porn site - aw is a site for escorts, webcam, fetish and porn, its like a group of things on there not just one so yes there is porn both free and available for purchase videos and photos

Thingsdogetbetter · 05/01/2019 14:34

Zombie

LuluCruz5 · 08/06/2025 00:11

Its a site that escorts use yes, it also offers webcam, phone calls, SMS exchanges and merchandising. I wouldnt call it distasteful. Its safer than those girls having to walk streets. The site is hot that ages are verified and consents are proven. A Webcam view is basically porn but not hardcore. And if hubby saw a escort i submit Its a bummer, but better than an affair. Call the girl, she wont feel good eeceiving the call and probably wont remember your guy.

Itiswhysofew · 08/06/2025 00:17

ZOMBIE. This was posted in 2012.

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