Do you know what DL? And I really hope I don't offend here, but it sounds to me like she is making excuses not to be physically intimate with you. She doesn't like kissing, she doesn't like sweat, she doesn't want you near her boobs and she doesn't like oral sex - so what does she like? I'm sorry but I really do think that she doesn't want it anymore. You have mentioned issues in your marriage before, do you think that perhaps she is throwing in the towel and this is her way of distancing herself from you? Good on you for going to marriage rehab and I hope that these issues can be addressed - at least you are talking about them. But I do think that serious questions need to be asked, is it just the kissing thing or it a symptom of something more serious?