Is size important?

[advicegratefullyrecieved]

I expect I will take a slamming for this but here goes. I have been dating a new man for a while and last night things got a bit heavier than normal and I discovered that he's penis is really small. I mean less than 3 inches and not very thick. I've dated someone before who was small and it played a major part in our breaking up because when we had sex I never felt it.

Is this something that can ne gotten over?

Why should this need to be hidden? The OP was not insulting! She was posing a question that's valid for her.

We have enough sections on this board.

Hide the thread.

EXPAT- sigmund said she hates these threads and suggested people talk in real life so as not to create a thread visable for years /ever that may cause worry to others.
Your response - hide the thread - as in if you don;t like it don't look.
That is not what she meant i think - she means these threads are online for ever, her not looking will do nothing to stop that.

WorldCitizen - I don't care what you think but your comments can be read by my son for example in 10 years time when his girlfriend dumps him after the first time he braves the situation of getting naken if front of her. Finding out that he was lucky she didn't puke on him is not going to help.

This thread cannot be flipped because there is no compariable situation, but if it could you would be getting much more stick than you think you are now.

Many of us have to hide threads that we find incredibly upsetting - I had to hide the one about Kym Marsh's wedding photos with her son's ashes because it struck too close to home after a while, as my daughter recently died.

That doesn't mean no one should discuss it, though.

should, that's the net! There's loads of stuff out there and Googleable that one particular person might find upsetting. That doesn't mean others shouldn't discuss such topics online.

shouldkeepquiet - thanks, yes, that's what I meant.

'I'm wondering how on earth any mother knows how big her son's adult erect penis is/will be, unless he's discussed it with her, which seems extremely unlikely.'

Some men do suffer from certain hormone conditions which result in small penis or micropenis. This can be picked up from childhood. My son has one of these conditions which is why these threads make me really sad for what the future holds for him.

Sigmund I apologize unreservedly for any offence I have caused you. I asked on an anonymous internet forum with enough changes so I would retain anonymity. I do not wish to discuss it in real life because my friends know him and I will do whatever it takes to avoid him being embarrassed but it was something I needed to talk about and help me think through.

Again I'm sorry to have raised such an emotive subject to you.

Advice, you need to move on from this person. You are not doing him or you any favours and both of you need to find someone who satisfies you more sexually. His size doesn't work for you, there's nothing either of you can do about that and you were frank and looking for advice online for valid reasons.

It's OK advicegratefullyreceived, I know you didn't mean to upset anybody, I'm sorry you feel bad, please don't take my ranting personally.

I'm just super-sensitive about it (as you can probably tell)

Really sorry to hear that ballroom.

Ballroom. Sorry to hear that