not really an aibu more wwyd/wwythink? -d-h and dm

[tinky19]

Stopping with parents. I went to bed h stays up with m. Just went down to find m draped over h. Both jump. M pulls dress down (it was up round her thighs). Wtf?
H says nothing happened?!

Ok - that's really odd.
How old is your mum and is it conceivable something dodgy was going on?
Wtf indeed.
Maybe move this to relationships, but you saw what you saw

Oh wow, doesnt sounds good.

Oh tinky :(

That doesn't sound good at all.

Where is "D"H now?

I dont know how to move threads. brain gone to mush. H fucking asleep. Wtf?

Dont know what to do. Dont want to be wrong and potentially destroy family. Feel sick

What I would do would depend on a few things:
Is it conceivable your mum would be inappropriate with your DH or vice versa?
I would think its not ok for my mum to be draped over DH and I would expect an explanation, even if "nothing happened"

This does seem strange. I don't think your actions are unreasonable.

When your H said nothing happened did he try to explain what was going on?

Report your thread and ask for it to be moved into relationships.
Was he drunk? What is your gut saying?

Sorry but was it his mother or yours?
His mother, I might think it's ok, maybe.
But your mum, I would be suspicious, sorry!

H says nothing happened but the fact that she was draped is something in my eyes! If it had been any other woman i'd have slapped her. As it wadn't i turned and walked.
H still took a couple of minutes to follow me too!!

My mum

So he didn't even try and explain? I'd be absolutely fuming. Something obviously happened.

He is drunk.
He just said it was nothing
. Wtf having your mil draped over you is not nothing

Wtf do i do? My dad is sleeping soundly down the corridor as are my chn and we're supposed to be going away tomorrow

tinky
I'm sorry - that's horrible. Hope it's ok but I've asked for the thread to be moved to relationships.

I'd want an explanation at least. He's asleep? Where us your mum?

If he's implying your imagining your mum draped on him, what about the starting and the dress pulling?

Obviously you don't need lots of questions but I would say trust your gut. You know your DH and mum. Ate you all going away together?

Downstairs

I have no advice, but think you'll get some good advice in the relationships board. Shall be online for a while yet though, so you aren't alone.

I'm up for a bit too tinky

Thank you both. I'm a bit too [shocked] by it to know what to think.
M and h are both flirts in their own rights

I'm crap at confrontation really. To make accusations could ruin two relationships but wtf? . What were they thinking?!

To be honest, it doesn't exactly leave much to the imagination, does it.

I don't think you are the one who should be worried about potentially destroying the family. Seems that may already be in the works anyway & it isn't your fault.

Would it be really out of character for the flirting to progress?
They shouldn't ne flirting with each other.
Trust yourself and your instincts.

Has your mum said anything?

What differentname said. The only people to blame for breaking up the family are your mum and husband. You aren't to blame at all.