not really an aibu more wwyd/wwythink? -d-h and dm

[tinky19]

Stopping with parents. I went to bed h stays up with m. Just went down to find m draped over h. Both jump. M pulls dress down (it was up round her thighs). Wtf?
H says nothing happened?!

I would be watching out for texts or some sort of contact between them over the next few days. Your DM will be wondering what your next move is.. Be on your guard. Ask him for his phone for the week and see what texts he gets.

So sorry you are going through this OP. Have you ever noticed any chemistry between them? Are they close? As others have said this would be a deal breaker for me, its the ultimate betrayal, so sorry ((hugs))

I'm sorry this had happened to you OP I hope your husband is giving you some answers!

I have no idea what a mother could be thinking to do something like this, i hope you and your dad get out the other side of this ok whatever you decide to do.

Thinking of you tinky x

Me too xx

Hi,

wanted to let you know how I'm getting on.

Trip away was a bit strange really as I was so confused. (D)H said nothing more than sitting too close to each other happened which i do believe but it's still very weird/ creepy/ yucky.

We had an argument about it one night and I ended up sending my m a text asking what had happened. She said 'nothing'.

She sent a few more chatty text messages (some of which i responded to) and I haven't heard from her since sat. So we haven't actually spoken. This in itself is odd as she's normally on the phone every other day at least. It suggests she feels guilty about something??

H has an interview to save himself from redundancy tomorrow so I'm trying no to go on about it until after that but stewing constantly.

To top it all off I now think I may be pregnant. (I would quite like dc3 but not nec. under these circumstances/ at this time. H on the other hand will be horrified although he does know about the birds and bees )

Delurking to let you know I've been keeping you in my thoughts. I won't give you my opinion because what matters more is how you want to deal with the lack of facts as you have them. I would be expecting both DH and DM to be beyond reproach in future though if I was wanting to trust them and their version of events.

I do so hope your DH gets to keep his job. Not an easy position to be in and probably a good plan to keep him as calm as possible in the circumstances.

How long until you're more sure about DC3? Time for a deep breath I think.

You have shown so much restraint and dignity since you first posted. Make sure you come first for a while and rest assured that the cream always rises to the top.

Well, when they both say that nothing happened-I´m thinking that they mean that they didn´t have sex.

That´s either good enough for you or not tbh.

Oh tinky what a situation to be in. Have you poas yet?
Take care of yourself.

Well....

If I found my mother within 4 foot of my OH in any kind of doubtful situation that would be it for me!!!!!

No going back on that. :(

The silence and lack of contact from your DM itself speaks volumes. GUILTY AS CHARGED

If l remember right your DH went back to her after you had stumbled across them probably to get their story straight.
So you have no proof and l dont think you will ever get them to admit any wrong doings or any intention of wrong doings.

the choice is yours what to do but to be honest for your sake l hope you are NOT pregnant.

Oh you poor thing :( How are you today Tinky? I think your (D)M at the very least owes you a full, frank, honest discussion where you can get your questions answered.

How did your H's interview go?

Thinking of you

Hi Tinky
still thinking of you here. Have you managed to confirm for certain whether you're pregnant or not?
Hope Hs interview went well.
Stay strong x