I found a list in my husbands pocket

[InSearchOfSunrise]

I've posted before about our difficult situation, relationship breaking down etc.

I just found a list in my husbands pocket with all our worldly possessions in a column, prices, and buyers. The buyers were all his family.

I feel sick to my stomach. Those were things we bought together. How can he compile such a list and how can his family be scavenging for bargains when our family is falling apart?

Feel sick and don't know what to do. Can he do this? I'm having images of his family just walking in and picking up my things and walking out with them, and me not being able to stop them, with a six month pregnancy and a 3 year old watching as her things are carted away for peanuts.

Please someone help

Its pouring with rain outside.

I've decided to move all of husbands thing out of the room he took from DD and moving all her things back in there now.

Sick of him having his own little crash pad while we are both holed up in one room.

Sick of having to clean playdough/glitter/teasets off the floor before getting into bed.

Sick of him being a selfish bastard and taking a bedroom all to himself with his tidy little things in piles, while we live cramped and cluttered in one room.

Rant over.

And he comes and sleeps in my bed anyway. So double fuck you for taking this room just to chill out in.

All his stuff is still in the Hallway while I have a little rest. I'm tempted to throw it out in the pouring rain - his beloved iPad and collection of CDs.

Should I...?

Oh shit.

He's come home and gone berserk.

You OK? You have done nothing wrong, you have stood up for yourself, but be safe. Ring police if necessary
.

He's breaking things

Call the police.

Phone the police. Now.

Hope you're okay.

999 now

He's gone.

He's smashed the big tv. Thrown things around in the kitchen.

I'm paralysed on the sofa.

Hope you are ok. call the police. they will help you and take you
seriously.

Smashing. things is classified as domestic abuse. call the police and get it all logged.

Oh Insearch call the police and get it logged as others have said.

Are you and dd ok?

We're ok. He just brought her back with bubble mixture and some stuff she's been asking for.

Then he saw his clothes had moved and went crazy. I just don't understand it at all. How can he go from normal to psycho within a minute? How?

Sunrise even if you're 100% OK, please call the police and get it logged. It could help with your housing.

I've texted the IDVA and told her what's happened.

I think I need to go see her again.

Dd was sat in the bedroom blowing bubbles.

Has he gone again? Can you tell his family what he's done? They need to understand that this isn't 'all talk'.

Call the police Sunrise, and don't tidy anything. Make sure they log what he's done, and take photos.

It's not ok.

He is ramping up the level of violence. You need to be on the radar of the police. Take care Sunrise, because the ease with which you've written this off as done and dusted is worrying.

I'm not there anymore. Ive left with my dd, we're staying at hers.

He won't go, I just want to get away. We're sleeping on the sofa.

I don't know where to go from here.

I'm so glad you're safe. That is truly all the matters today - and tomorrow is another day. I assume you're at your mum's?

No I'm at my friend's, trib. I just took a few things. I don't know what I'm doing.

Don't worry about it tonight - just let your friend look after you and make sure you get something to eat.

I'm glad you are safe. I know this isn't how you wanted things to end up but the situation was getting dangerous and I'm very glad you have left. I hope you can get some help from the council now. Did you report what happened and that you had gone? It might be an idea to do that for evidence for the housing department. He should be thoroughly ashamed of himself. You should be proud that you have had the strength to escape. Take care.

Oh Sunrise, I'm so sorry. I just wanted to say I'm thinking of you.