No make up no bragging, no kissing, no shagging, no tumbling hair, be a maiden fair. And you definitely won't see him for dust! Dating thread 14

[ChaoticismyLife]

Chastity belts at the ready...

Extra strong padlocks required...

He was probably asking so he knew he would see you again. That's fair enough. MsC I am still out there and as of next Friday will be dating again (10days) if nothing happens with just friends. If I get no messages etc I am not too bothered yeah right, like anyone will believe that

I think the c@me in hair/face/mouth thing is just something girls say tbh, to turn a guy on. I don't have to do that. I get men to want me for who I truly am. That's the basis of a relationship the sex comes later, I am glad I waited to pounce kiss just friends, cos it felt right, and I was sure about it, no doubt, no regrets. That's what matters.

Notsure, I'm 33. But to be fair I.was the same before being 30. Apparently I'm.somewhat of a oddity :) sink breaking and all..I'm of the ' If everyone is consenting, anything goes' though I have slept with a surprising low.number of men. I don't mind being on all fours... Or in whatever position... And I would also ask them to cum on whereever, because I like it ( my god, I can't believe ive just written that'

Sponge, It's not you. I expect the constant contact was all about the Chase. You gave in and saw him, hence he doesn't feel.like he needs to keep it up. Party sounds fab :)

Mlm, I.don't think all girls say things like that just to turn a man on. I genuinely like things like that. Turns me on and I get a huge kick out of it. ( often enough so it Will tip me over the edge) I.certainly wouldn't say something if there wasnt anythihg in it for me!!,:)

I.also totally disagree that wanting a man to want you how.you are, has to be seperated from sex..I kind of think sexually exploring.things together can help you get to know someone, and its fun. The two things don't have to be mutually exclusive.

Frankly (very) my ex would cum on my face or tits, because I'm not really all that into PIV, less of a pregnancy risk & my STD history, but that was a relationship built on trust, over several months & he would always make sure I got mine first. (apologies, graphic )

As a pre RL textual foreplay, then, no. Don't presume I'm you're personal bendy porn bunny. Wheres the Goddam romance?

Chicken position is fun watch, 'pluck me harder' and all that. 'Goooo on, stuff me, pound me til you hit my giblets' does it for me.

It's one to try.

I have never had anyone come on my face, hair etc. Or at least not intentionally

Agh! You're/your fail! More about that than the graphic description of my historical sex life!

notsure don't sweat the is it/isn't it a,relationship/what's happening thing. Just let it take its course. :)

God no, not as textual foreplay,.esp if you haveht met.

In a relationship though, it's all good :)

Who said sex threads were only for Fridays!,

Oh I do "experiment" I don't think its mutually exclusive, but I wouldn't say those things to get a man to like me. I have of course been very sheltered minus getting caught in woods, pants down, and the home made porn, do I really need to go on but I wouldn't do those things to get someone interested they would have to want me for more than truly fantastic sex.

Oh hair is a pain. Face/tits/anywhere else can be dealt with via tissue/baby wipe. Hair = shampoo. Eyes = stingy

(sorry George, have we utterly alienated you?)

Hair would be a pain. Although I suppose you could have a shower afterwards together to wash it off

Mlm I don't think any.of us on this thread are the type/ desperate enough to try to.bribe men with things like that..
To make them like us. In fact It's more likely to be the other way round, in that they would have to be awesome to get that :)

My rule is anywhere but not the hair. My hair is important. I.don't need cum In it thank you very much.

Watch I agree re hair, I don't even like men touching it much let alone anything else :)

I am tempted to send a text. I know I probably should wait til tomorrow, but I'm rubbish at being patient. Plus if he's going to cancel tomorrow night (which I think he will, on the basis I've heard nothing from him today) I'd rather find out now.

Tis my fault for daring to think I might get a second date!...

Hello ladies - blimey this thread moves fast. I reckon this sudden block stuff is completely non gender specific - not that you would of course, but please don't tar us all with the same brush!

Certainly in my limited experience us blokes get it all the time too. The pièce de résistance was before I'd posted any pictures up on one site. This girl sent me a really long email eulogising about how my profile (which was, admittedly, quite outstanding) was so different from the norm, and how I sounded fascinating....oooh and could she see some pictures please???

No problem, I'll dust off (read upload) some classic shots for the profile toot sweet.

Blocked.

Does wonders for the confidence that!

Another one is related to the classic 'Why hasn't he/she replied yet'

We get it too. There was one who seemed to be able to know the exact amount of time to wait before replying so that just as you were giving up hope of ever hearing from them again (i'm talking weeks), in popped a message. It was infuriating. And then, another was quite the opposite. She wanted a message seemingly every minute. She got terribly angry when I didn't reply immediately, and then blocked me when I had the temerity to not reply for a day due to me being struck down with the old manflu. That's the problem with online stuff (and I guess our lives these days) - everyone panics because we all assume everyone is constantly accessible.

This is why I much, much prefer real life!

Sponge, I'd text to..I'm rubbish at waiting and would rather know too. So I'm not sat about waiting..

I've text him.

Purely along 'how are you' lines, rather than 'why haven't I heard from you all day ?'

And now I wait...

I am rubbish at waiting too, which is of course why I won't be texting just friends on Saturday and why he will wait half hour for a reply if he does text yeah course that will happen

None of us are desperate enough to bribe a bloke but a lot of young girls think its what will keep them their boyfriend.

Maybe I will try it with someone I trust one day. For now no though. Although just friends did promise to experiment with me.....will wait and see there not holding my breath.

Sponge I would text too. I'm not into all this 'wait for the man to text first' stuff. If I wanted to text, then I would text. So text him. And report back.

George what sites were/are you on? Are your profiles hidden or are you active again?

But never my hair I only use expensive shampoo etc as it is (its my treat to ne and lasts much longer) I would not be letting it get in my precious hair.

I would also text - waiting for someone to send a text is v frustrating. Although then I would be waiting for them to reply as well.....

so, he's online but he hasn't replied to my text.

and now I feel like a complete idiot. He was the one saying to me 'Oh, I'm not sure you'll like me, if you don't please be honest' etc. Telling me he saw me as a potential girlfriend. I could understand that if he was going to try for a shag or something but he didn't at all...so is it that I was so not what he expected that he couldn't face it?

BTW I got a really sweet message from a male friend on Facebook it said (was one of these picture things)

I loved you yesterday
I love you still
I always have
I always will.

The last one had been a picture, saying don't cry, someone is always there for you. How sweet.

Oh no! I hope someone can help...I've been chatting nicely to someone on pof, arranged to meet on friday for lunch and just asked him to send some more photos...oh god, he looks nothing like his profile picture, which was obviously taken at least 15 years ago!

I feel terrible, how can I let him down gently without making it obvious that its the photo that's put me off?

How do I get myself into these things?

Mlm, LOL, ah. That's where the discrepancy is..you say young girls do that..I think all of us, bar sp are over 30 :)

Sponge. Annoying. Esp if he's online right.now. and who.knows why they do these things. It's happened to all of us, then.just leaves you.totally baffled..

Louder, id just say that.there was no spark for you, but you wish him well.. but only if he contacts.you..if he doesn't then just leave.it :)