I know nobody will think it is a good idea but let me explain.
I have told XP he can move back in here until he finds somewhere to go. I will help him apply for housing with anyone and everyone.
I know you are all going to be shouting NO NO NO at the screen right now but I just cannot stand by and watch his family destroy him. 3 seperate memebers of his family rang him yesterday ranting and raving at him, calling him for everything and basically saying that unless he does as he's told they will not help him and he cannot use the flat he is staying in now.
His family are truley awful, and before this he had had no contact with them for about 4 years.
If he stays there they will control his life forever and he will end up topping himself.
I know I am not responsible for him, but I am responsible for my kids, and do not want to watch them crying at his funeral because his family bullied him to death and i didn't help him.
At least whilst he is here I can take over the applying for housing stuff which is better because I know more about it than him and can push harder than he can.
I know it will be hard, i feel like i have taken 1000 steps backwards, but it's not all just about me.