Would you continue seeing a guy if he had no ....

[ChickenSkin]

Willy? Say you really, really liked him and could imagine a future together, everything else was perfect apart from this one problem. Would you continue?

is this serious?
or is it hypothetical?

I think it's impossible to say. Probably if he was fantastic in other ways.
After all Ken's pretty tasty and he's all smooth of groin.

And action man.

Wrestling figures have no willy either but in all seriousness, in a real life bloke, would it bother you?

Yes.

It would bother me.

In fact I have a size threshold below which I will not venture so no willy at all definitely falls outside my datable parameters.

ionysis i have that too! whats yours? mines 7.5

As long as he let me choose the strap on it wouldn't bother me.. In fact it may even be considered an advantage.

It would bother me. I know how disappointed I feel when I see a small on for the first time, so no willy at all would be awful.

What happened to his willy ? Or has he had a transgender op, is that it ?

What non at all? Yes, it would bother me alot.

Where has he left his willy? Can he not go and collect it from lost property?

Its more of a case by case judgement by eye really. I have actually broken up with 2 people (utterly lovely, charming, financially self-sufficent and otherwise acceptable) for this sole reason. I honestly could not BEAR to only have sex with that for the rest of my life. I mean they were like little chippolatas. So sad.

If DH had a terrible zipper accident, obviously yes.

If I were single and dating and found out that within the first few weeks, no.

No, I have tried and failed. Little acorns do not satisfy. Neither do they grow into mighty oaks.

Sorry little guys. Size does matter.

If it was a miniscule willy, I couldn't do it. That is one conversation too far. "Hey, you've got a small willy, please wear this strap on."

If it was someone who was transgender and was open to alternative forms of entertainment/strap on, it wouldn't bother me.

Small when soft dosn't bother me. It could be miniscule when soft and I don't give a damn. It is size erect which matters. Its only men who care about size when flacid because of other blockes seeing them in the showers. Personally I've known some pretty ickle winkys become damn impressive given the right incentive but if it fails to sufficiently inflate its not happening.

i guess i'd want to know why he had no willy?
sex is usually a pretty big part of a realtionship and as someone whos not too keen on receiving oral sex, thats pretty limiting.

Now if he'd lost it through an illness or an accident then if i liked him a lot and wanted to make the relationship work, we could work round it so to speak, but im not sure on what other reasons he would have no penis? a trans gender would be now wanting to be a woman surely?

wouldn't bother me. I've done without one in this marriage for 12 years, after all

in all seriousness, it's the person that matters. a penis is just a penis. there are other ways to be intimate. Anything can happen to a man to make him unable to 'function'. Does that mean you leave? because they can no longer stick a part of them into a part of you?

Yes. Enjoying satisfying penetrative sex is very important to me and I would not be prepared to spend the next 30 years without it. Would have to agree to an open relationship.

Or maybe a strap on but would have to test that theory before commiting.

is this him?

Yes it would bother me and no I couldn't continue seeing him.