Fuck Him and his Barbour - dating chat 10

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New thread - you know what to do :)

Just gotten online. He was lovely last night, didnt get back til late! And yes we had some fun and i am MAYBE seeing him again this weekend, he told me to let me know when. He was lovely and yes i had a couple of drinks but wasnt drunk.

But i also have others to date, i was on a date whilst getting asked out to the cinema, which would have to be my choice- titanic in 3d! And not for leonardo dicaprio....ohh maybe a little. Feels good! Appartently i looked stunning some men know how to say all the right things.....but still on oasis, dont think he will be right for me to be honest, and well i am keeping my options open.

The move went well, i am now getting settled in a little!

Now who to date on the weekend?? Choices choices!

Glad it went well for you! Enjoy all ya options

Finally heard from the fella I was speaking to. I didn't text back straight away and I got worried I was ignoring him

And he got worried*

Finally, honestly, men for you!

I am chatting to a few, but not sure about dating, has anyone tried mate1? I am on it atm!

Great news MLM - so glad you had a good evening. Did you fancy him?!!!!

A little, but there is a couple or three i am talking to who i fancy more! So i am not sure who i will be going to see this weekend! if anyone!!

I am glad that i obviously dont drive every man away! x

Excellent - I'm glad you are having fun with it / them. Looking forward to hearing all about your weekend.

I will of course keep you all informed of how i get on! I am looking forward to hosting my house warming party! Although i wish i could invite you girls, cos you have helped and supported me so very much. THANK YOU.

oh have good housewarming :-)

so I'm chatting to three seemingly decent ones so far. only one has so far asked to actually meet up, one has given me his number and asked me to text him.. and the other just chatting. I'm in holiday on Friday for a week so can't arrange anything for a week at least. I have also developed a rotten cold and not feeling well :( so not in any state to be dating this week anyway!

Its always the way isnt it? I never look my best when i go onto a date! Or i never feel like i do, although last night i did feel good.

mlm - glad it went ok, do you think you will see him again? hows the house?

milk - how are you feeling now? kudos to you for asking him out face to face, that takes huge balls, it really does. And i know how you feel, we all feel like that sometimes, but as postbell says, its nothing to do with being attractive or not attractive, nothing to do with it at all. Its all just down to luck, and finding the right person, at the right time ( because sometimes, the right person and the wrong time can be just as bad as having not foiund them at all)

I have my date with the buddist this evening. I dont know his name, he knows mine. I cant ask him without looking a tit now. I know he changed it, and through the powers of google i have found it, but fuck knows how to pronounce it... im just going to wing it.

MLM. Happiness in your new home. Not much dating news for me as I'm holed up with the mother of seasonal flu. Whilst heavily medicated yesterday I decided to create a new pof profile, no picture, and sate that I'm looking for an intimate encounter. I know about the mn experiment. Anyway I was absolutely inundated. Ironically more so than when I put intimate encounter with my picture on! What's that all about? Dont answer tht one .So I've wheedled out a couple of potentials and asked them why they contacted me and whether they are also looking for an ie as their profiles state they are looking for a relationship.
I was texting a bloke there for a couple of weeks but he has vanished. Another vanished when I told him my age (43). He is 44.
My fwb is back in the vicinity on 16th April so I'll look forward to seeing him although I don't know if I fancy him anymore. This thread is great. I read it every day. Did someone say there is a Facebook group?

I suspect men dont put ie so much in thier profiles for fear of being slated by women for being 'players' or only after one thing.
of course ie women who check the ie option are liberated, modern and taking control of our sexuality

we women, not ie women

has the buddhist bloke taken a sanskrit name watch?

Hope the date goes well Watch. The name change stuff is interesting!! He's not going to be wearing a robe is he?

sunshine, fab, its a good way of getting high traffic and then filtering out from there.

there is a fb group, are you on any of our facebooks? if you pm me ill add you to mine and add you to the group from there. its just cocks though, so if you dont want to see that....

speaking of cocks... my phone went freaky
the other day, and apart from telling me its 1980, it seemed to unblock everyone. The guy from last year, with a gf started chatting to me about normal stuff....next thing i know hes asking for a picture, so he can do a ' cum tribute' for me I googled, as you do, knowing it wasnt going to be great. Apparently, you send a pic, the guy cums over it on the screen, takes a pic of that and then sends that to you. GRIM. firstly, why would you even bother, thats a whole lot of effort for nothing, secondly, men are discusting, thirdly, i was fucking offended and let him know it ( esp since im quite sure hes recently moved in with his gf)

i dont think so... though you can see he has one on in one of his profile pics. its that or some kind of toga type thing.

erm, i think he takes it quite seriously, but i dont know what a sanskirt is.

am i being terribly naieve? should i not go?

and what the fuck do i call him?

sanskrit is a language & lots of buddhist chanting is in sanskirt. I'm not too sure about the name thing - loves might know more - but I think you can "take" a sanskrit name as a buddhist.
I think you should go. He should want to spread good karma if nothing else, which definitely includes buying you a drink!!!! However, if you arrive & he is in full robe with a bowl for offerings of food - you reserve the right to run as fast as you can!

sanskrit is the language used mantra's om mani padme hum and all that:)
cum tribute?
Tribute??
To what?
Tribute to his worship of his own bodily fluids
yuk
does he really think that any woman would be flattered by that?
How deluded is he

actually i might do it...for a fee, £500 might just about compensate for the insult

i have no clue about the sanskrit thing, fuck knows. Its either going to make no difference, or a whole load of difference, but having never been on a date with a buddist, and seeing as ive got nothing better to do, and no child at the momment, then i might as well go.

yes, cum tribute... id not heard it either, wondered if it was something to do with the hunger games, but no, its not. just some grimey thing dirty boys have come up with. IF you google it some do actually come up on you tube ( how they have not been blocked i dont know) and there are boys rubbing their cum all over their laptop screens showing apic of a girl. Not even porn!!! This is a 33 year old middle management type of man as well, not a spotty 15 year old who you might expect this kind of behaviour from.
according to him, you are dedicating your cum to them...

fucking hell, i do wonder sometimes if its just better to be totally single, if that is whats out there...

what'd be a fitting resonse to the 'cum tribute'?
Hmm
what about some video footage of you using a cardboard cuttout of him for target practise:)

yeah that'd work, after all he did unload his 'weapon' onto a pic of your face
sauce for the goose...

its just discusting really though, isnt it.

See, i find it all quite interesting, i have some male friends who are into fetish and the bdsm scene, and while some of the things they might like tend to be more ' out there' they would not, without someones consent, ever, ever, suggest anything like that, or treat a woman in such a drerogary manner. So its not even to do with being a 'pervet' and everything to do with being gross and having no respect for women.

i dont think there is a fitting response, doesnt even warrant one really.

loves - go do the IE experiment, even if nothing comes of it, its very interesting.

do you think the result would be much different from having a profile on a 'no strings' website?
i'd find typically 60+ messages per day when first putting a profile up..but always much more response with a picture than without