He wants to be my slave,,,,

[SpiritualKnot]

Chatted to someone online and on the phone last night. He wants to be my slave. I am serious!! He sounds totally normal, easy to talk to, divorced, pleasant but he says this is a fetish he has.

He says he wants to sit at my feet, or he'll be my footstool, he'll wash up for me, make me drinks, massage my feet, anything I want. When others are around he'll be normal as it'll be a private thing between the two of us.

Don't know whether to feel lucky or creeped out really. I've often thought it would be quite useful, in theory, to have a slave, but I'm definitely not into domination stuff, but he says that might develop with time.

Anyone any experience of this type of fella?

"I've always thought it'd be quite useful, in theory, to have a slave"

Now there's a sentence.

Blimey! I'd start making a (very long) list of stuff that needs doing!!

Sorry, are you guys new to the internet or something? This fetish is not uncommon, and men who want to be slaves are generally easy to find because men who want to be slaves massively outnumber dominant women (or at least, women who are prepared to indulge their fetish). As many have correctly pointed out, this only really works out if the woman also enjoys the fetish. There is financial domination too of course, men who have a fetish for sending huge sums of money to women who they will never meet, just to feel degraded.

I so need one of these.........

ZOMBIE!

Brilliant. Make a list. Garage defo. Would he wear clothes for mowing the lawn?

Hopefully the garage is long cleared given this thread is 13 years old.

Then search for one and with mutual consent aquire one who wants to live has one in a long term relationship. Treat him. mean and keep him keen. Having the whip hand can fulfil all feminine dimensions

For many it is not a fetish but a lifestyle. Some wear made to measure locked metal chastity restraints and work naked but do not have a sexual relatiionshjp, the relationship being platonic and the woman always in charge and fully in control.

Some such submissive men also serve couples and even consenting families.

Perhaps you may be the weirdo? Learn tolerance and not prejudice?

It was natural and rewarding for you and to enhance you're life you should keep him has your servant.

Well have you given serious rather than frivilous thought to such a matter? Many. engage in such relationships has a rewarding and fulfilling lifestyle choice. Many men do not want or need sex and are happy to work naked and wear a locked metal chastity restraint and enjoy doing the housework, be it for hours,a few days or for years on end. It's not weird or kinky but it suits the women or female household that would benefit from such a fulfilling lifestyle situation. Women above and the male below in a willing relationship.

Exactly, this is what they call 'topping from the bottom', you think he's submissive, but actually is pulling all the strings, a film that illustrates this well is The duke of burgundy, (only in this film the relationship is between two women).

I married a man who I later discovered had lots of secret submissive and humiliation fetishes, same things, op mentioned about the guy, but other things. I'm open minded and tried to be supportive and accommodating when I found out, goodbye normal sex life and intimacy, god he was exhausting and drained the life out of me, a pathetic emotionally abusive porn addicted narcissist, who has you said treated me like shit and with contempt outside the bedroom, it's dominance under a guise.

The only way I would consider this scenario again, would be strictly as a business transaction, where the submissive man is paying me for my services to facilitate this kink, but keep them out of my personal life.

How aggressive.

And on a zombie thread from many years ago.