Blue, blue Christmas

[Flanelle]

I'm currently single and I don't hate it, but I don't love it either. I'm often lonely. Sometimes I'm terribly lonely. I have fab kids and friends I love, but I'd like a partner too. I truly don't care what he looks like or anything, but he so totally has to not be a fuckwit. Where do all the emotionally intelligent, funny, bright, curious, non-anxious, non-ambivalent, non-childish men hang out? Anyone any idea? Does your wonderful DH have a wonderful single brother? If he liked art and talking and listening and trying new stuff and snogging for hours and stuff like that, that would be so good.

Dp's best mate is single (has been for ages)
He is lovely and great with kids but is always the 'friend'
He is a runner and has a good job and his own house!
He is v shy but I think he's great- have set him up with some of my mates but they were too young/ not interested.

Nightmare!

He is 37 btw

It's a lovely age. It's my age! And is he mature, happy, intellectual, uninhibited?

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Could this turn into something wonderful ?

No, hang on, I'm 38 I think. Own teeth. Own hair. Lovely manners. High expectations.

Lol Any Fucker, who knows! Mind you , he is only bachelor number 1. So far.

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Don't you just want it all to end happily ever after .

Pfft!

mulled anyone? Christmas is a magical time, so who knows what this thread could bring .

mullered ?

no

not yet anyway...

all in good time AF .

Who gets to be Cilla?

. My vote goes to either AF or SGB, they would make excellent hosts/interogators!

What area are you in? Love is not so easy where distance is concerned. Give us a rough area. I can offer you a 39 yr old mad slightly alcoholic arty veggie type - only likes women who are bad to him... (north west)

My friends also in the north west

pass your rejects this way for a second viewing please

can i add kind and sweet to the list? i miss kind, sweet men - i'm sure there used to be lots of them about when i was too young to appreciate them.

I can donate a very nice looking, rugby playing Welshman. Has a child by an ex, but is a good dad, lots of fun and hasn't met the right laydee yet. (N Wales, 32)

I have a terrifically shy 26 yr old going spare if anyone's interested? Tall, dark, working.

This could make my night slightly more bearable. I have one 33 lives in london atm. Beautiful! The brother of my d(ipshit)p. Definately got the looks brains and politeness, and rocking designer stubble haha xx

TooMuch I think we need to find you a nice one too.. x

CupOfGoodCheer...i am much better at trying to make other people happy...and this guy is a total catch. I'm a little embarassed to say when i met him i was gutted i met his brother first hehe xx

Cor! You step away for a couple of hours to watch Scrooged in your ancient PJs and eat supernoodles out of the pan, like the catch you are, and LOOK what hapens!