I'm currently single and I don't hate it, but I don't love it either. I'm often lonely. Sometimes I'm terribly lonely. I have fab kids and friends I love, but I'd like a partner too. I truly don't care what he looks like or anything, but he so totally has to not be a fuckwit. Where do all the emotionally intelligent, funny, bright, curious, non-anxious, non-ambivalent, non-childish men hang out? Anyone any idea? Does your wonderful DH have a wonderful single brother? If he liked art and talking and listening and trying new stuff and snogging for hours and stuff like that, that would be so good.