I HATE MEN!!!!!!

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Arrggghhhhh!! Why do men only want you for a blow job and never a relationship??????

What, all of them?

If the men you meet only want that then you meet the wrong men.

because they are idle? amazes me what straight women put up with.

Maybe because you're giving them the blowjob prior to the relationship?

Like Trills says, a lot of men want more than a BJ. Mind, it's usually a good start to forming a relationship.

I've never met a man who has just wanted me for a blow job...I've met many men who I'd be happy to just want for a blow job, mind. Relationships are hard work, blow jobs are easy

Woah! OP! Imagine if a man posted 'I hate women' ! He would be lynched!
You have to look at yourself for the answer to your question.
As with Hairy, I've never met a man who has just wanted me for a blow job! Why give a BJ to a man you're not even in a relationship with?

erm, you need to expand a bit

I don't hate men

but I do hate fuckwits

I tend to give them a wide berth these days, though

I meant why do ALOT of men only want sex these days? I am the sweetest lady a man could ever want, gainfully employed, my own place, a car. I just want to be loved like i love you.

The men I meet are only nice for a bit after the deed it's wham bam thank you mam..and sometimes they don't even say thank you!!!!!

Try waiting until the relationship is established before treating them to the blowjob??

I dunno

Why do you think that men who you arn't in a relationship with ask you for a blow job? I've never been asked for a blow job by someone i'm not in a relationship with.

where exactly are you "meeting" these men ?

ALOT

arf

I meet these lovely blokes sometimes at work, sometimes if i'm out shopping, or sometimes if i need the handyman to come and fix something in my flat, or the one who helped me with when i had a flat tyre. Just normal blokes really until they change.

Umm, OP

Try keeping your knickers on and your mouth away from his willy for a while longer.

The men I meet are only nice for a bit after the deed it's wham bam thank you mam..and sometimes they don't even say thank you!!!!!

Personally, I don't think that anyone should thank a person they've just had sex with. Unless they are paying them.

"r sometimes if i need the handyman to come and fix something in my flat, or the one who helped me with when i had a flat tyre."

I see your problem. You appear to have accidentally stumbled into the plot of a porn film. The only escape is that instead of giving blowjobs to men who come to fix things in your flat or help with your flat tyre, you stop shaving your legs, take up weight-lifting and start conversations about Germaine Greer with them, because it's well known that feminism is the antithesis of porn. HTH.

Seriously though OP, do you actually spend time getting to know these men before having sex with them? Do you think that you need to have sex in order to keep (sorry bad word but can't think of another) them?

"r sometimes if i need the handyman to come and fix something in my flat, or the one who helped me with when i had a flat tyre."

Why are you giving blow jobs to handymen and blokes who help you change a wheel? Surely cash and a thank you would suffice!
FWIW, I have had the RAC out many times, and I have NEVER given one of them a BJ! no matter how hot oil smeared and horny looking they were

I am a happily married man. However, if I were single again and a woman leaps into bed with me soon after meeting and with little or no indication that anything more is expected I would assume she was only after casual sex. If she wants a relationship I would expect that to be clear before sex was on the agenda in that we would have spent time together first.

If you have sex with a guy and hope it leads to a relationship you are likely to be disappointed. If you really want a relationship you should build that relationship first so that becomes the context in which you have sex with him.

If you are building a relationship first and having sex in that context but the man then dumps you, you are choosing the wrong men.

I don't recall every thanking someone for having sex with me. Maybe I'm out of touch but it just feels wrong.

And I agree with WibblyBibble that your last post sounds like the plot of a porn film. If I helped you with a flat tyre and you gave me a blow job or had sex with me I would definitely think this was casual sex. I would run a mile if it turned out you wanted a relationship.

You're in very good company if you hate men.I think most here do!Ouch!

like I said upthread, it's the fuckwits I can't stand

LOL @ prh47bridge

I don't hate them. I think I'm a bit scared of them. I don't trust them. And, I think a lot of them are beneath contempt...

OP, do you share your thoughts on what you want prior to the blow job?

Babysteps, OP. Next time don't give the bloke a blowjob until you have at least had a snog. Remember 'Tits first, do you think I'm common or something?'