I HATE MEN!!!!!!

[mummasita]

Arrggghhhhh!! Why do men only want you for a blow job and never a relationship??????

hmm i've been known to say thank you for fab sex, amazing head. i thought it good manners

op have a break from them.

seriously noone says thank you for someone going down on them and giving them an orgasm? what a rude bunch you all are.

seriously noone says thank you for someone going down on them and giving them an orgasm?

I might say complimentary things and express my enjoyment, but there's just something......I don't know.....icky about actually thanking someone for having sex with you.

It somehow implies that it wasn't a mutual act, done from lust and a sincere desire to give and receive pleasure, but just something one party did for the other, as a favour.

If a man ever thanks me for going down on them, it makes me feel a bit used, - as if I just did something as a huge concession, for which he ought to be grateful, or grudgingly as a special treat. Rather than something I wanted to do. Its just grim to thank someone, - would you thank someone for giving you a kiss or wanting to hold your hand?

so 'thank you that was lovely' is an insult?

i shall try to remember that.

would i thank someone for doing something lovely for me - yes. for kissing me, no. for licking my whole body and not expecting me to lift a finger whilst they put all the focus on me purely for my pleasure - yes i may say thank you and purr a lot.

and that was in the context of relationships. i don't think there's anything wrong with acknowledging that someone has just dedicated a lot of love and attention to your body and pleasure purely to please you and take pleasure in doing so.

i think sex is gift giving (not as in obligated or duty bound stuff) but as in giving the gift of pleasure and attention. sometimes it is a mutual ravaging act, sometimes it's one person spoiling the other and sometimes vice versa.

mind you i say thank you and sorry a lot so i'm pretty sure anyone who knew me well enough to be sexually intimate with me wouldn't find it strange.

and personally i find this whole 'i give a blow job purely for my own pleasure because i just love bobbing up and down with a cock in my mouth' a little hard to swallow (no pun intended).

ROFL @ santa

'i give a blow job purely for my own pleasure because i just love bobbing up and down with a cock in my mouth'

Hmmm, I'm not sure I went quite that far . If my partner didn't enjoy it, there wouldn't be much call for me to do it, so I can't claim its all for 'my own pleasure'. But it certainly is always a willing act, not a grudging favour. And not something that I need to be thanked for, like it was doing the washing up or something. If my partner told me I ought to be 'more grateful' for him having sex with me, I wouldn't be best pleased.

so 'thank you that was lovely' is an insult?

Look, you think it's rude not to thank someone after sex. I don't. That's a difference of opinion, not a reason to get snarky. Your original complaint was that these men you know don't even thank you after receiving a chewie, - I think what this thread has shown is that opinion varies over whether that is necessary.

dont give out the blow jobs then.

or stop giving it a way for free you need a relationship first and get to know someone before giving out

i don't think it's rude not to thank someone i just don't think it's necessarily weird or degrading or comparing sex to washing up if you do thank someone for an incredibly lovely and generous lavishing of attention upon your body. no snarkiness here

I don't think most men want a relationship anymore they just want they dick swallowed up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!