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Original poster

DP accussed me with used condom

63 replies

PoorLuLu · 20/11/2011 16:07

This morning DP pulled used condom out of the bin and said it wasn't the type he used and was more or less accusing me of shagging around.

OP posts:
Trills · 20/11/2011 16:09

How did it get there?

usualsuspect · 20/11/2011 16:10

How did they get there?

SquashedSquirrel · 20/11/2011 16:13

Huh?

maxcliffordslovechild · 20/11/2011 16:14

Do you have teenagers in the house?

Singleandproud · 20/11/2011 16:17

A bin inside the house or outside? A gross passer by could have put it in.
How old are your children? If you have teens you may have to have a word.
Is it possible that its his? In my experience the cheater always blames the one who isn't.

TheFantasticFixit · 20/11/2011 16:20

In a situation like this, there is only one person to call:

Jeremy Kyle.

Original poster
PoorLuLu · 20/11/2011 16:26

it was his, he used that type ages ago just the once and he forgot but that bin doesn't get emptied much.

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TheMonster · 20/11/2011 16:27

Urgh. Maybe you need to empty your bins more often.

kblu · 20/11/2011 16:27

His memory is obviously very bad then, what did he say?

AKissIsNotAContract · 20/11/2011 16:28

How can he know the difference between different types of used condoms? Once they are all full of spunk do they really look that different?

He sounds insanely jealous. Is this your only problem or is he jealous/controlling in other ways.

kblu · 20/11/2011 16:29

How long ago are we talking here?

Original poster
PoorLuLu · 20/11/2011 16:29

it was a ribbed one which is pretty obvious but we did use those once, he doesn't like me talking to men and thinks the town centre is a cattle market.

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Original poster
PoorLuLu · 20/11/2011 16:30

2 weeks ago but he'd put it in the recycling bin which doesn't get emptied much

OP posts:
Proudnscary · 20/11/2011 16:31

???

SazZandASparkler · 20/11/2011 16:31

Recycled condoms Hmm

ImperialBlether · 20/11/2011 16:33

RECYCLING BIN??

Oh god, OP, I don't think I've ever hoped so much that a thread is a windup.

SirBoobAlot · 20/11/2011 16:34

What bizzare posts from OP.

LOL at FixIt, though.

SquashedSquirrel · 20/11/2011 16:34
Biscuit
ameliagrey · 20/11/2011 16:35
Shock what? you just throw them in the recycling bin (??? thought that was for glass, cardboard or newspapers- not condoms?) without even wrapping in a small bin liner bag or even some tissues? Lovely.

And he cannot recall using thay type of condom 2 weeks back?

Is he senile?

This sounds very odd.

Original poster
PoorLuLu · 20/11/2011 16:36

well no he must have put it in there by accident. We have a new bin which is divided into two compartments, he can never remember which side is which.

OP posts:
planetpotty · 20/11/2011 16:36

I can't help it... GrinGrin I can't GrinGrin

Recycling bin???

Original poster
PoorLuLu · 20/11/2011 16:36

This is what I don't understand, it was wrapped in tissue so he must have stood there and unwrapped it.

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unfitmother · 20/11/2011 16:37

How gross - on many different levels.

SazZandASparkler · 20/11/2011 16:37

It seems he can't remember condom makes either. Definitely second senility.....

Sparklingbrook · 20/11/2011 16:38

Too many mind boggling questions. Trust issues, housekeeping issues, condom indentification issues, and abuse of recycling facility. Shock