One Night Stands - have you ever had one?

[itsbeentwoyearsffs]

I never have, ever.

My situation is such at the moment that I don't want to be in a relationship for the foreseeable future, if ever. I pulled at the weekend but didn't do much and was talking to a mate about it afterwards. She thinks I should have taken advantage of the situation! But there is something in me that can't get over the Respect thing. Its not like I want a relationship with this man but I AM gagging for a shag.

So I just wonder what people really think. Its been two years! Two years ffs, since I had any physical contact with anyone and I could have broken that on Saturday but couldn't go through with it.

Don't know just want some thoughts really, this dating and men thing is so blurry and confusing to me now. I am in my late thirties btw so time is not on my side. I still look pretty good, should I be taking advantage of this and getting some?

How do I separate the love and sex thing? I always fall for blokes and start getting the churny stomach thing the minute I even snog them!

Aaaargghhhhh!!!!!!

Yes up until I met DP. I'd had about 200 ons. I'm not proud or ashamed. I have no regrets.. It just is what it is..

No, never. I'm not interested in sex unless I also want a relationship with the person concerned. For me sex is a form of bonding, not a physical need, so a ONS would not be light fun but would fuck with my head and my feelings.

Nope never.
Sometimes tempted when We've had a blazing row but I don't think It's the kind of person I am if honest.

Yep, when I was in my, 'the best way to get over a man is to get under another one' phase.

And repeat...…...

Zombie thread from 2011; last posts were from 2016 until today. I forget to check dates too.

No. I don't operate that quickly, especially not with a stranger.
Sometimes I wish I had done when young, then I remember how screwed up I was. I would have got overly attached to them, feel devastated when I never saw them again, basically taken it all far too seriously. So just as well I never did.

Nope, I don't get the whole having sex with someone you don't know thing shrug.

Still a zombie thread. OP 2011!