PoppaRob checking in. Had a couple of chats and contacts on Oasis. One is a very nice woman who unfortunately was widowed and has only ever had one partner, that being her late husband. Seems nice but wears her hair in a bob , lives at the other end of town (100+Kms) and I'm thinking any relationship will end in her tears so not going there. The other is also nice but seems to be a foodie of European extraction, is a much bigger girl and once again lives across town (85Kms away). We spoke on the phone tonight and I think I succeeded in scaring her off in the nicest possible way.
Just minutes ago I had a contact request on Oasis (no pic) with a profile that reads "Female 51 Australia. Full of life, beat to a different drum, don't do drugs and don't have riches, but happy enough, I am studying at uni and working please note my list of what i don't want is concise. I am a mother and grandmother. My family is as important as yours. please respect that. I also have a life and hobbies of my own, respect that and i will treat you the same. i would like to meet someone with natural intelligence, and who wants to hang out and good company. I am single because my work interferred with a private life for 10 odd years. would like to change that now. Currently my eldest son is staying with me with his children, Hence the children status. What I'm Looking For. Someone who has grown up. LOL. who is comfortable with themselves. Likes good company, and does not want me to replace their mother. A talker and a listener, likes to do things outside of the house. No couch potatoes, No Clubbers. Enjoy the company of people who know there stuff be it cars or agenda 21 or 2012. Someone who can think outside the square. i beat to a different drum do u. And the obvious NO PHOTO,DON'T BOTHER.ILL NOT RESPOND what else ex's r ex's for a reason, and this also applies to people who play games on this site. Only been here two weeks and already worked out there are some losers. No offense to anyone but my finances r my business as well. I don't ask re yours. B/Hell this sounds pretty full on and in a way it is. Just someone nice, and not a con.Oh and no women please." So should I accept the contact request or just pour molten lead into my ears and gouge my eyes out with a spoon and be done with it?