1 wedding, a wank bag and 52 dates. Internet dating chat thread no 2

[lubeybooby]

A new one!

title courtesy of Shiney :o

Chit chat about all things dating related here.

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It's on the first thread helena... it was a date of mine. Third date with a well to do DCI. Previous two dates had gone fine, good in fact. End of third date and we are snogging goodbye in his car when he suddenly got his cock out and wanked into a small green plastic bag, like for dog poo.

He than called me 'mental' and bi-polar' when I refused a fourth date. Nice.

lubey brilliant! I am so pleased it went well, I stayed up spechally!! I hope you are wrong and once he does want something more than a gig buddy. Did you tell him all about Eastenders and Corrie and everything he is missing by not having a tele?

I need to sleep now but I shall be back tomorrow for more info!

Night night time and thanks :o I stayed off the telly subject, I don't watch much myself so wasn't difficult

Hi Helen it involved a third date with a policeman who suddenly produced a plastic bag and filled it!

lubey that sounds a good date all round! Let's hope he enjoyed it too.

My lovely POF man rang from abroad as it his birthday and said he didn't need any treats as he has me now! He is winning me over. He had 29 birthday greetings on Facebook including some slebs from the BBC! That at least means he has friends.

Waiting to hear more updates...

splendid news! a bit of faith restoration in blokes always welcome!

It most definitely is welcome. I needed that after some crap recent times.

He is really lovely. Very difficult to judge the situation as his break up was only six weeks ago so the apparent 'friend' connection could just be a result of cautiousness on his part. I can't say 100% what's going to happen, if anything. But I'm certainly up for another date or gig if he is. We will see.

Littlehouse aww that's nice! And yay for him having friends :o

Oh and and and.... I had purposefully left my cigarettes at home because he doesn't smoke, but i didn't even think of smoking or wish i could go for one during the date. Which is always a good sign :)

and he just text to make sure I'm home ok and say thanks again which is another very big thumbs up from me :)

Wow that is impressive. Does he know you are a smoker? Could you give up for him?? Might be good motivation.

I bought my VNM a scalextric birthday cake for when I see him next week. I think he is just an overgrown boy! In a nice way.

He does know I'm a smoker yes and yep i sure could

Sounds like a great date lubey. Keep communicating with him and when he's ready you might just be the one, insha'Allah!

Well my 2nd date went really well and he asked me to be his girlfriend, I feel as though I have known him for ever, I still haven't slept with him though, he dropped me to my door with a huge kiss and a hug........ feeling very happy

Ahhh nice one dawg glad it's all going well :o

Shiney did you talk to him about the engagement? What with that and him thinking your exclusive now, he'll probably be booking the vicar next week

Lubey and Dawg, sounds like lovely evenings for you both.

Well another day, another inbox full of fuckwits. My favourite of this bunch is the one who's initial contact message is 'when will you get a job? :-)' (am student midwife). I replied with 'er, when I'm qualified I suppose'. Weirdo.

Whose not who's

And you're not your! Aaargh. I'd block myself.

Hmmm... sounds like a 'fair to middling' night there Shiney. It's not filling me with hope of getting my wedding outfit on anytime soon though I have to say. What do you like about him? Is there much point carrying on? or do you think maybe it could be a slow burner?

Hellsbells what an eejit! Mr stupid question that is not you!

Yep the sex has got to work. I do find it usually improves a lot in the first month or so of a relationship, as you get used to each other and various likes and dislikes and all that.

Lubey - Brilliant! I am really pleased you had a nice date, hope you hear from him again!

Dawg - Great news!

Shiney - I always find the sex gets better on the second time. The first time there is that little bit of nerves, working out what each other likes etc etc...judge him on the second time, if there is one! And spray him with deodorant. Tell him its your fetish I once had a guy that stank of BO in bed. Had. Once. Only!

Brilliant news Daw

REeally pleased you ad suc a good date Lubey, good sign that he texted you to make sure you got home OK.

First time isn't always good Shiney - IF EVERYTHING ELSE IS GOOD THEN i WOULD SAY GO WITH THE FLOW and see if it improves

Sorry, laptop playing up this morning

I am super nervous. Had a funny chat with Mr Body last night, meeting him a 7 ish, he is driving up and lives an hour away but is at work again tomorrow at 5am!

Shall I go with a shortish red/white skirt and plain white top with high heals (looks feminane with a hint of sex and shows off fake tanned legs....OR... jeans with a yellow strappy top embroidered with beads?