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I Have a Date Tonight!

63 replies

MotherMucca · 16/09/2011 01:05

Have been languishing on PoF (I know!) and had a message from a man whose profile is good, messages suggest he's a larf.

I have not gorn on an ID for years. I know all the safe dating stuff, no probs there. The man (as suggested in his photos) is no Tom Hardy.

This does not matter, does it? I know it's impossible to judge chemistry via photos. Is my reticence due to nerves, or an almost certain knowledge that I won't get fanny gallops from this man?

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MotherMucca · 16/09/2011 01:06

P.S. We rendezvous tonight at 7:30.

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ednurse · 16/09/2011 01:59

Did you enjoy your date?

izzywhizzyletsgetbusy · 16/09/2011 02:44

Mucca's got to wait another 17.5 hours to start enjoying her date, ed.

'Way to go, Mucca. It's best to dip your toe in slowly after such a lengthy hiatus.

As long as you have a few larfs you should be able to overlook the lack of fanny gallops but be careful - some of us can easily be larfed into the sack.

Of course, the minute you get home you must report here and give us a full warts & all account .

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MotherMucca · 16/09/2011 08:18

You are right, of course izzy. I am a bit gagging though, it's been a long time. He seems like a veh veh nice man and amusing, so I'm sure I'll have a good evening.

Of course I will rush in to update later.

Blush Grin Wink Blush

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ike1 · 16/09/2011 08:21

Hopefully no warts izzy (thinking of the recent thread re t'internet dating and STI)

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MotherMucca · 16/09/2011 08:40

Shock missed that one ike. Where, pray tell, can it be found?

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MotherMucca · 16/09/2011 08:58

fishpie, it's a goodern innit? Wish I could remember the MNer who coined it first, so that I could credit her. Grin

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izzywhizzyletsgetbusy · 16/09/2011 15:50

Blush Apologies, Mucca - most unfortunate choice of words.

So, rendezvous later this evening for debriefing? Providing you weren't debriefed earlier and decided to stay the night Wink

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MotherMucca · 16/09/2011 17:52

Thank god you're interested, izzy! Grin at where/how I'll debrief later!
(Acksherley my 'briefs' is one of them sucky-in-shorts-allinone-wear-your-own-bra jobbies. Think Big Daddy unitard and you're not far off.)

Feeling a bit nervous now.

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izzywhizzyletsgetbusy · 16/09/2011 18:11

Have a large Wine Mucca, but not so large that you'll be putty in his hands - or feel the need to remove your unitard in a hurry.

It's good strategy to play hard to get into your undies as most men enjoy the thrill of the chase.

Treating 'em mean with a hint of possible -ahem- kindnesses at a later date has always worked for me.

I'm looking forward to your full and frank account with no holds barred a la Big Daddy.

I hope you have a great time.

Bluebelle38 · 16/09/2011 18:29

Have a great time!!! :)

ednurse · 16/09/2011 19:07

Sorry, I was on my phone on a night shift and all confused! Have a good time!!

ike1 · 16/09/2011 19:18

Yes enjoy, but if I remember rightly the MN in question was instructed that she had to keep her knick knacks on due to the 'gentleman' having said warts + sex was banned for 6 mnths. T'internet dating 4 ya (hands in badge).

AngryFeet · 16/09/2011 19:21

Good luck!

charlottesmum5 · 16/09/2011 21:00

It was me with the wart man!!! And no I still haven't officially dumped him although I haven't seen him in 2 weeks and we have only spoken twice. My cat died, then his mum died and now he's in Shagaluf. He's not back for another 10 days, then he has his mum's funeral!! OMG this is going to be the most dragged out dumping ever. And he still has my hedge trimmer!!

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MotherMucca · 16/09/2011 21:42

I'll be back soon... Confused

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izzywhizzyletsgetbusy · 16/09/2011 21:47

Ye gods, your bush must be running rampant by now cm!

I lived in Mallorca and I've been to Shagaluf. It's remnants of the season time there now - think lights going up in the disco just before chucking out time when the saddos who didn't get lucky earlier renew their desperate attempts to score.

Just a thought, bet he goes in the 'golfers' bar - full of older men who've left their wifeys behind while they focus their attention on holes. It has those weird lights that make whites ultra dazzling - makes it easy to spot the false choppers.

So his poor mum's on ice till he returns from his jolly? Jeez, what a caring guy he is. Makes me wonder who, or how many, will be going home with a souvenir they hadn't bargained for. Hope he keeps his wetsuit on.

My sincere condolences for the sad loss of your cat.

izzywhizzyletsgetbusy · 16/09/2011 21:48

O dear, Mucca.

The night is still young - spill!!!

Jellykat · 16/09/2011 22:18

Mucca, posting at 9.42 - Where you in the pub loo on your phone?..

Judging by your Confused, do you need a friend to phone you with a 'getaway' excuse?.. (Hope it's not that bad!)

charlottesmum5 · 16/09/2011 22:26

Love it Izzy, you have hit the nail on the head quite literally. He text me earlier to say he got in at 2am this morning - i didn't bother replying cos I don't want to spend any more money on Barnacle Bill...

Bluebelle38 · 16/09/2011 22:32

Barnacle Bill haha Is he a cling-on???

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MotherMucca · 16/09/2011 22:51

Right.

It is not worth staying up for, btw! (Sorry.)

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izzywhizzyletsgetbusy · 16/09/2011 22:52

He got in at 2am -on holiday in Mallorca cm??!! He must be into early nights - what a wuss.

Or it could be he stockpiled drinks at the all-inclusive bar of his hotel (they usually close cmidnight-1pm) and went to bed after he downed them. The cheapskate didn't want to put his hand in pocket at one of the numerous bars that are open through the night - tightwad.

In any event, the fact that's he texting you suggests he's not having to fight women off over there - no disrespect to you, of course Grin

buzzskillington · 16/09/2011 22:53

Next!