The Brave Babes Battle Bus - Sweeping Into Autumn With A One Way Ticket To Sobriety.

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Phew, just in time!

I'm mouse and I love a few to drink. I love all things cheese and I love MrMouse

Welcome to the Bus. We are a collection of drinkers, non-drinkers, and those who are somewhere in between but we all have the same thing in common, we can't just have 1 drink and then stop.

Come say hi, we don't bite .

Here are the other threads to date, if you have a spare hour or seven to kill.

OUR HISTORY

hey saf nothing like a new routine to force some changes in your life.

What delights for the afternoons? Can you enforce a 'quiet time' after lunch when you can have half an hour to yourself? Gather strength, then get out immediately, park, or friends, or swimming, or walking with dog. Come home: tea and toast and soup (made during the morning). Bath, story, bed.

Then what will you do? write, knit, make something?

venus, SAF won't have time for that, she'll have a doctoral thesis to write .

I generally go for a run after school drop off. It is a great excuse to speed up the early morning routine and avoid thinking about what to wear by skipping a pre-school run shower and donning exercise gear and a cap.

Yeah saf I know what you mean, it's that balance between planning for what ifs... trying not to plan too far ahead, yet making sure you know how you'll manange if the things that you want do come to pass.

isindie how would they be if you (as their daughter) were unable to have children, and you adopted children, or had surrogate children - do you think they could ever see it like that?

how would they be if you (as their daughter) were unable to have children, and you adopted children

venus I was just about to say the same thing. Your wiseness must be rubbing off on me

hiya babes sorry i havnt been around for a bit my dd did have her op and every thing went ok :) i took my kids for a weeks holiday in butlins ( thank goodness i took my toxic mum with me ) i would never have copesd with my ds with sn on my own im here getting pissed as im getting mixed messages from my ex who i still love

Hi Missy do you want to be getting pissed?

Or do you want me to say, pour that glass away, get a large glass of water and tell us what's going on in your life?
I will be here for the evening and happy to chat.

i just want a friend bbwanna

awwwwwwwwwww ty isindbetterpace what has set me off tonight is that he has got me a birthday card and a pressie for next week and he has admited that we spilt up because of him i still love him so do my kids he is seeing some one else but he still wants us

No wonder you are confused missy it sounds to me like he is feeling guilty, maybe because he knows you have so much to deal with with the DC. But you need to look after yourself, feel good about yourself.

Have you had that glass of water yet?

Isindie you are right about absolutely no logic, someone who believes in firey pits (fairy pits is probably more on track since it is nonsense) should also believe in love and tolerance.

BTW I didn't mean to offend anyone here...

I know a lot of you believe in fairies

yep i have bb sips of water then wine

I believe in fairies

there are fairies here - they do the housework!!

Missy10 - sweetheart. Please please don't pin your hopes up on your XP/XH. Especially if he is with someone else. Sorry to sound like a complete cowbag but just be careful. Your heart will be fragile.

Take your time. xx

Off to bed for me, Nemo's first going to bed with a story and I leave the room night since he's been in his big boy's bed.

Wish me luck.

Night Brave Babes xxxx

Ma I wish!

Missy not quite the plan, but it may help with the hangover tomorrow

You lot are a bunch of softies!! [hard-nosed emoticon]

yes it is mouse he got 2 me tonight by sayng he has a card and a birthday pressent for me