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Original poster

is it ok to do this with dh when pregnant?

184 replies

weebittyshy · 04/12/2005 13:43

hi, didnt know whether to put this in here or pregnancy.
i am wondering if its ok to use vibrators and have anal sex whilst pregnant. it doesnt hurt so i think its ok, but just wondering.
thanks and sorry if its tmi.

OP posts:
teeavee · 04/12/2005 13:55

it is!!!

teeavee · 04/12/2005 13:55

tmi, i meant - not that it was ok !

jstbcs · 04/12/2005 14:08

i think as long as u have done it b4 and it doesnt hurt, then yes. check 'operators' instructions...

pupucelovesruDOuLaph · 04/12/2005 14:09

why is it not OK teeave?

TherewasnoMOOMattheINn · 04/12/2005 21:52

vibrators are a no-no if they are internal ones. and sorry if this is a bit reactionary but WTF would you want to have anal sex when you were pregnant?! isn't your body going through enough punishment at the moment anyway?! how pregnant are you? when the piles kick in you might find yourself regretting this somewhat...

CrystalmasJingleTips · 04/12/2005 21:57

Another hmmmmm post here I think

moondog · 04/12/2005 21:59

rofl at teeavee!!
(I agree..)

skerriesmum · 04/12/2005 22:20

who's that trip trapping on my bridge? ditto the cow in the bedroom thread!

Flum · 04/12/2005 22:23

sounds fine. I would avoid using your electric blanket and hairdryer though.

gomez · 04/12/2005 22:34

Anything that says black and decker will be too powerful - otherwise your are fine.

Original poster
weebittyshy · 05/12/2005 09:54

i am being serious here. me and my hubby like having anal sex. what is wrong with that. i am 13 weeks pregnant.

OP posts:
cod · 05/12/2005 09:54

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FlameRobin · 05/12/2005 09:55

I actually looked up vibrators a while ago, and it says that there is nothing wrong with using them in pregnancy... I think I would still be wary of using internal though.

Don't care if this is troll or real, still handy info to have

ENIDeepMidwinter · 05/12/2005 09:55

why dont you ask your midwife?

Auntybrandybutter · 05/12/2005 09:56

Cant see a problem!
If you enjoy it go for it!

FlameRobin · 05/12/2005 09:56

Can't see any issue with anal either... didn't look up anal vibrators though

cod · 05/12/2005 09:57

Message withdrawn

FlameRobin · 05/12/2005 09:57

can I just verify... weird conv with a friend hence the looking it up...

ENIDeepMidwinter · 05/12/2005 09:57

info here

cod · 05/12/2005 09:58

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ENIDeepMidwinter · 05/12/2005 09:58

hardy har har

cod · 05/12/2005 10:00

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lunaturkey · 05/12/2005 10:01

id say be carefull if its a rabbit or gspot vibo (not that im the expert or anything ) but if its a little one it should be fine

i induced dd with a bit of diy from a small one dp was too scared ! so be careful (i was due date +6 though)

lunaturkey · 05/12/2005 10:03

at meself

Auntybrandybutter · 05/12/2005 10:03

strange thing is you cant use a foot spa when pg!!!!