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is it ok to do this with dh when pregnant?

184 replies

weebittyshy · 04/12/2005 13:43

hi, didnt know whether to put this in here or pregnancy.
i am wondering if its ok to use vibrators and have anal sex whilst pregnant. it doesnt hurt so i think its ok, but just wondering.
thanks and sorry if its tmi.

OP posts:
juice · 06/12/2005 15:08

no no i am not offended. i know alot of people dont like the thought or idea. and i understand that, sure i wouldnt like some of the things they do.

HappyMumof2TurtleDoves · 06/12/2005 15:39

I don't think it's a very nice thing to be doing when pregnant(don't think it's very nice full stop) Bit surprised that you would want to broadcast it to everyone,juice tbh

HappyMumof2TurtleDoves · 06/12/2005 15:40

I'm sure I'll be called a prude now

SpringCrimboTurkey · 06/12/2005 15:44

PRUDE

Ironmaiden · 06/12/2005 15:48

What's a troll?????

HappyMumof2TurtleDoves · 06/12/2005 15:48

lol

munz · 06/12/2005 15:52

jucie - would prob say talk to ur M/W and ask if 'all' areas of intercourse are OK.

personally I don't like the idea of it (not PG) but hey ho each to his own.

wouldn't have thought that vibrators would be a prob as long as u're not to ahem rough/forceful iycwim

Ironmaiden · 06/12/2005 15:58

Between dairy cows, mooing, milking, vibrators, anal sex and trolls I'm terrified! What are you like?

Seriously, what's a troll? Do I need to be careful crossing bridges?

HappyMumof2TurtleDoves · 06/12/2005 16:03

I seriously think there is just one, sick troll out there at the moment. There are far too many of these threads which tend to get a bit detailed........ I think the best remedy for sick trolls is not to feed them

vhairi · 06/12/2005 16:24

Juice - bet you wish hadn't even bothered now.

If you can't ask the questions on here then where can you? I don't see what is so shocking. Its about the only good thing left that you are able to do when pg, i don't just mean anal but sex in general.

Enideepmidwinter · 06/12/2005 16:27

I think it is a bit weird as juice, you have had all the advice you could possibly want on this thread and links to other websites. Surely you didnt think this thread wouldn't be controversial? If you did then it is you who is being naive!

Ironmaiden · 06/12/2005 16:34

Trolls, ladies, trolls.. I'm serious, I need an explaination b4 I grow udders and bugger Jessica Rabbit, what is a troll? It's not in the acronyms list...

munz · 06/12/2005 16:35

a troll is basically some one who comes on asks a really personal q, or somehting which will falme others into an arguement.

juice isn't a troll thou.

another12shy · 06/12/2005 20:06

I had anal sex and used a vibrator (although not vibrating internally) all the way through my pregnancy (the last time while pregnant was an hour or 2 before my waters broke).
I didn't suffer from piles at all - so who knows, maybe it helped prevent them !

And agree with whoever said it - sex was better than ever during pregancy

Just do what feels comfortable and what you enjoy!

HappyMumof2TurtleDoves · 06/12/2005 20:11

gross - sorry!!!!

TherewasnoMOOMattheINn · 06/12/2005 20:12

(been dying to do that!)

HappyMumof2TurtleDoves · 06/12/2005 20:16

I must have lead a very sheltered life.....

SpringCrimboTurkey · 06/12/2005 20:43

Grosses me out completely.
Dp always goes on about it but the thought just does nothing for me at all [puke]

HappyMumof2TurtleDoves · 06/12/2005 20:52

and me! And the thought of it in pregnancy is too horrible to bear

SpringCrimboTurkey · 06/12/2005 21:00

The thought of boring old basic sex in pregnancy was too much for me, let alone something more unusual.

HappyMumof2TurtleDoves · 06/12/2005 21:03

oh god, yeah, me too! Couldn't even talk to (ex) dp let alone anything else

Blandmum · 06/12/2005 21:03

never fancied it, or done it. Dh isn't interested in it either, in giving or receiving.

Don't see the atraction if I'm honest

Blandmum · 06/12/2005 21:03

never fancied it, or done it. Dh isn't interested in it either, in giving or receiving.

Don't see the atraction if I'm honest

Blandmum · 06/12/2005 21:03

never fancied it, or done it. Dh isn't interested in it either, in giving or receiving.

Don't see the atraction if I'm honest

Blandmum · 06/12/2005 21:03

wow, so vociferous I posted it three times

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