Clearing out cupboards for moving. Found a Daily Sport placed lovingly on a shelf in a cupboard I don't look in very often. It was dated 3 weeks ago.... and it was a special edition with pages 1-28 of women with their waxed tanned arsed waving in the air.... and lots of tits being squeezed and licked.
I'm not a prude.... I actually sniggered at DH's pathetic attempt to hide it from me!
BUT our sex life is dire.... H goes off sex for sometimes 2 months at a time. Its caused/causing major problems. Its another example to me of how selfish he is.
Anyway... he comes in from work at 6.30pm, I've cooked a fab meal to celebrate his promotion. And I casually mentioned it and snurked a bit.
I DID NOT expect the reaction I got or I would have at least waiting until the kids were in bed.
He denied it feebly/ then said it was from years ago.... er sherlock, its a daily NEWSpaper. DUH!
Then I asked why he'd bought it. BIG mistake. He started shaking his head at me and asking why I was doing this (???)..... asking why I was trying to spoil a nice night..... shouted that it didn't matter and I was a lunatic for letting it get to me!
Then is snapped when I said "why you getting angry at me.... I didn't by a filthy newspaper and leave it for you to find".
He came right up to my face spitting "who the fuck you calling filthy". Yes the kids were there.
I said I couldn't believe he was turning this around so that he could be angry with me?!! I mean how the feck did THAT happen??
He said "Shove your meal up your arse, I'm out of here you fucking weirdo".
The stood in the kitchen drinking a can of lager whilst periodically calling me names.
I told him to get out or I was calling the police. He refused. I dialled the police. He got changed and left saying "Get to fuck you fat cow, I hate you, there's my keys."
Now does that go down as the over reaction of the year or what?
I've locked the door. No idea where he is, but he took about 12 cans with him. I think he drove.
Any advice folks??