moomoo i dont know if its cheating. that's between him and his stripper(S) it has to be on a case by case basis. I do know its lying, and that's bad no matter how you slice/dice.
Rob f, i dont agree, hooters IS sleezy, music videos ARE sleezy, jaylo IS sleezy, the clothes that top shop and primark sell are often sleezy, the way a lot of 12 year olds dress is sleezy compared to the way my ex girlfreind stripper did 15 years ago. As long as girls and women are treated like a meat commodity, and continue to behave like a meat commodity (because lets face it, in this society, its rewarded) how can we ever expect to be better men? this sleezy thing is a bind, because its got some people thinking they need to be more sleezy because thats what MTV says, and at what point is it too far? at what point is it "oh, that dancer is working so hard to earn a living, and i like those moves" and at what point is it "i can see her minge! (wank wank wank)", which is usually followed by the post orgasm word "slut"
on the other hand, if you dont "try" you are somehow prudish or stuck up or conservative or hate sex, or some other bs. but its just that, BS, and its NOT true.
its about objectification, about seeing people as meat, or as a comodity and not as people with parents, with goals, with boyfreinds, with... a f"(king life. as just a pair of tits with a vagina and if she is lucky, and aluring smile and nice hair.
I enjoy looking at attractive women, but i prefer to oggle them with my wife. I dont need snoop dogs new dancers camel toe in hd thanks. It just makes me think his vid producer has no respect for women.
you can excuse yourself if you wish and trip off the stool of respectibity, and repeatedly disapoint your loved ones and fail to live up to any expectations because you cant control yourself or your wanking hand, if you must, but don't throw me in that bucket thanks very much.
Maybe as men, we too should be treated on a case by case basis.